i hv been recently diagnosed with diabetes which had gone upto pp of 292 - however with medicine and diet control it is now at 130. after this my problem is that i am not able to hv proper sex with my wife. the process is very painful as it is very dry - even after arousing my wife - there is dryness on the penis glands. is this natural - do i need to take some medicine to treat the dryness. i clean it up twice daily. kindly advise.

some sexual lubricant such as KY seems called for

I would discuss this with a doctor. You could have an infection. High blood sugar overflows into the urine. And sugar in the urine attracts infection of exposed parts of the body. I had such an infection many years ago. And circumcision (at the age of 32!) was the only way to get rid of it.

Good luck,

Mark;)