weepyone
06-12-2005, 03:19 PM
I am fed up waiting for my af post miscarriage as I want to ttc asap. How long is it before af return post early m/c? I feel like I am being punished having to wait. I know that sounds silly but I hate waiting, I need to try again I need to prove my worries I can't carry a baby wrong. Sorry for moaning just thought some one may have a suggestion as to how long I may have to wait thanks.
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weepyone
06-13-2005, 01:16 PM
ovaries are aching, uterus feels heavy and swollen think this with cm changes shows I am ovulating roll on this period so I can ttc again. :)
Jordyn
06-13-2005, 02:34 PM
Good luck to you weepy! We'll meet at ttc. Baby dust to you!
Do you have to wait for af before trying as per dr's instructions?
I chose not to...I may regret it but I have a feeling that it is right for me and with my m/c being so early it will not likely affect me.
Do you do bbt charting? I am finding it helpful and hope that next time around I'll be more sure of my body signals.
Do you have to wait for af before trying as per dr's instructions?
I chose not to...I may regret it but I have a feeling that it is right for me and with my m/c being so early it will not likely affect me.
Do you do bbt charting? I am finding it helpful and hope that next time around I'll be more sure of my body signals.
weepyone
06-13-2005, 08:17 PM
hi Jordyn
When ever i hear your name don't be offended but i think of new kids on the block, I bet you have heard that before. hope you are well. No I don't chart I can tell you by my symptoms I have ovulated today or yesterday at earliest although i think more so it happened today. I say this as i had right sided ovary pains like egg was breaking free (good visual imagery), cm, and uterus feels heavy. just found out one of my friends is trying for her second child, she did not know wheather to tell me but i assured her it is ok. Hopefully should get period in 14 days. Then will decide if i should ttc straight away which i would like to do or wait till after my holiday (vacation in american talk) in late july before trying. I guess this is because I got caught straight away last time and I am a bit apprehensive. Hurry up period then i can decide. Have you had a period yet or are you actually now ttc.
Take care
When ever i hear your name don't be offended but i think of new kids on the block, I bet you have heard that before. hope you are well. No I don't chart I can tell you by my symptoms I have ovulated today or yesterday at earliest although i think more so it happened today. I say this as i had right sided ovary pains like egg was breaking free (good visual imagery), cm, and uterus feels heavy. just found out one of my friends is trying for her second child, she did not know wheather to tell me but i assured her it is ok. Hopefully should get period in 14 days. Then will decide if i should ttc straight away which i would like to do or wait till after my holiday (vacation in american talk) in late july before trying. I guess this is because I got caught straight away last time and I am a bit apprehensive. Hurry up period then i can decide. Have you had a period yet or are you actually now ttc.
Take care
jo905
06-14-2005, 05:04 PM
just to let you know my 2nd preg was a miscarriage at 7 weeks I was told to wait until after my next period before trying to concieve again I couldnt wait though as I was so desperate for another baby anyway I fell pregnant straight away didnt have a period at all in between and my son was born 9 months later without any problems or complications although its best to wait in my opinion dont think it makes a great deal of difference well it didnt for me
weepyone
06-14-2005, 05:34 PM
thanks jo
I don't know what to do i think it is too late this month i o'd yesterday unless dh has been clumsy no chance this month. i don't know whether to try after next af but i guess when af has been and gone i will know if i am ready to ttc straight away. Guess it is just apprehension of another loss. I know lots of people have a m/c first time then go on to normal pregnancies. But i know people who have had 5 or 6 miscarriages what if this is going to happen to me. I know i should think positive but i never thought 1 m/c wpould happen to me either. I don't know how i would cope if that (multiple m/c) happens to me, i mean i know i would get through it i would have to but i desperatly want baby for me and dh and i already feel i have been robbed of my baby once. sorry for mumbling on.
I don't know what to do i think it is too late this month i o'd yesterday unless dh has been clumsy no chance this month. i don't know whether to try after next af but i guess when af has been and gone i will know if i am ready to ttc straight away. Guess it is just apprehension of another loss. I know lots of people have a m/c first time then go on to normal pregnancies. But i know people who have had 5 or 6 miscarriages what if this is going to happen to me. I know i should think positive but i never thought 1 m/c wpould happen to me either. I don't know how i would cope if that (multiple m/c) happens to me, i mean i know i would get through it i would have to but i desperatly want baby for me and dh and i already feel i have been robbed of my baby once. sorry for mumbling on.
Cupcake3
06-15-2005, 11:48 AM
Weepyone,
I am afraid the ttc again myself. I am afraid that I will get so far and then m/c. I was 13 weeks and having 2 d&C is scary enough along iwth the Dr leaving poc in side me which caused me to have the second d&C. I am scared and will reconsider it in December. But in the mean time I am still grieving since 4/28. In the mean time I want to eat right, exercise, take vitamins and have a happy summer....
Lets all start off positive on the next one...
Healthy bodies to all............
I am afraid the ttc again myself. I am afraid that I will get so far and then m/c. I was 13 weeks and having 2 d&C is scary enough along iwth the Dr leaving poc in side me which caused me to have the second d&C. I am scared and will reconsider it in December. But in the mean time I am still grieving since 4/28. In the mean time I want to eat right, exercise, take vitamins and have a happy summer....
Lets all start off positive on the next one...
Healthy bodies to all............
jo905
06-15-2005, 01:25 PM
I saw something on tv today that said one in 4 people who have miscarriages have blood that clots easier than others and if you have had more 3 mc you can get a test to see if this is the case all they do is give you asprin to help thin the blood usually symptoms are frequent m/c between 5 and 10 weeks
I am also scared about trying again I never have a problem concieving but the thought of having to go through all them emotions again scares the hell out of me its funny some times im totally fine about it then Ill see something on tv or someone with a new born and it p******s me off so much feeling resentment for everyone else who never seems to have these problems life is weird isnt it
I am also scared about trying again I never have a problem concieving but the thought of having to go through all them emotions again scares the hell out of me its funny some times im totally fine about it then Ill see something on tv or someone with a new born and it p******s me off so much feeling resentment for everyone else who never seems to have these problems life is weird isnt it
jo905
06-15-2005, 01:34 PM
just another quick note think Im gonna try this month know i should wait for af but im not going to bother haha being naughty stopped bleeding from mc 2 days ago if it happens it happens fingers crossed
weepyone
06-16-2005, 09:04 AM
Hi Jo
Yeah seeing babies makes me envious I can't wait for my own bundle of joy. Going to a wedding in 2 weeks and at least three people i know who will be there will be blooming with their pregnancies, although i shall have to listen to sil moan about morning sickness i know i shall want to punch her i would do anything to feel sick cause at least i would know my baby was ok and still alive inside me, she should be grateful she is pregnant. Life is not fair. you mentioned asprin I didn't think you were suppossed to take it in pregnancy. good luck ttc
Yeah seeing babies makes me envious I can't wait for my own bundle of joy. Going to a wedding in 2 weeks and at least three people i know who will be there will be blooming with their pregnancies, although i shall have to listen to sil moan about morning sickness i know i shall want to punch her i would do anything to feel sick cause at least i would know my baby was ok and still alive inside me, she should be grateful she is pregnant. Life is not fair. you mentioned asprin I didn't think you were suppossed to take it in pregnancy. good luck ttc
polarized13
06-16-2005, 02:00 PM
Hi all,
I just wanted to add to this thread regarding the aspirin thing. When I went to my Reproductive Endocrinologist's office for my pregnancy test, they prescribed baby aspirin to me to help prevent miscarriage, (I did end up m/c a few days later anyway) I guess my point is, it's true that small doses of aspirin can be good for you in early pregnancy. But if there is something wrong with the embryo, nothing will keep you from losing it though, it's just nature's way.
Weepy, I hear you about having to be around pregnant women and babies at at time like this, I feel the same way, it's really hard. We are going to visit family soon, and I have a new niece coming next month, and a brand-new nephew just born a couple months ago, I suppose it's out of the questions to not see them, but I don't know how I'm going to handle it. :(
Just wanted to share. Good luck and baby dust to you all...
~~heather~~
I just wanted to add to this thread regarding the aspirin thing. When I went to my Reproductive Endocrinologist's office for my pregnancy test, they prescribed baby aspirin to me to help prevent miscarriage, (I did end up m/c a few days later anyway) I guess my point is, it's true that small doses of aspirin can be good for you in early pregnancy. But if there is something wrong with the embryo, nothing will keep you from losing it though, it's just nature's way.
Weepy, I hear you about having to be around pregnant women and babies at at time like this, I feel the same way, it's really hard. We are going to visit family soon, and I have a new niece coming next month, and a brand-new nephew just born a couple months ago, I suppose it's out of the questions to not see them, but I don't know how I'm going to handle it. :(
Just wanted to share. Good luck and baby dust to you all...
~~heather~~
Jordyn
06-19-2005, 10:28 AM
I had read somewhere that taking aspirin prior to conceiving can help to increase your blood flow to the fetus as well. Could be a load of crap...I don't know.
Jo - I too am ttc right away after m/c. I decided that I couldn't wait and am 8 dpo now and hoping all worked out. I have slight cramps now and am praying that it isn't a sign of af. If so my luteal phase is really messed up.
I think it varies from woman to woman but for me, waiting just didn't make sense and if I have another m/c then I guess I learned a lesson the hard way.
Good luck to you both and here's to hoping af comes your way soon Weepy.
Jo - I too am ttc right away after m/c. I decided that I couldn't wait and am 8 dpo now and hoping all worked out. I have slight cramps now and am praying that it isn't a sign of af. If so my luteal phase is really messed up.
I think it varies from woman to woman but for me, waiting just didn't make sense and if I have another m/c then I guess I learned a lesson the hard way.
Good luck to you both and here's to hoping af comes your way soon Weepy.