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bleedingsoul88
07-12-2005, 12:05 AM
I'M SO TIRED OF ALL OF THE STUPID CRAP THAT GOES ON IN THIS MESSED UP WORLD....I HATE IT!!!!!!

I just want to scream at everyone! I feel like everyone is so freakin stupid, so freakin lazy......the worst part is that I feel like I am too. I hate the things going on, but I'm useless! There is nothing I can do!!!

GRRRRRR!!!!!!!! I'm about to explode with fury!!!!!!!!!
I JUST NEED TO BLOW OFF STEAM!!!!!!!!! :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

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DiveDiva
07-15-2005, 01:26 PM
Do you like feeling this way?

Gianna2
07-16-2005, 07:18 AM
Bleedingsoul,

Doesn't it feel good to vent sometimes? It's healthy!

Now, what is the problem specifically?

Gianna

Paul38
07-17-2005, 02:17 PM
You didnt always feel like this - I'm sure you didnt - cast your mind back !

porcupine_tree
07-17-2005, 07:18 PM
Dont worry i feel like that all the time. Im always pissed off, i hate people, i hate my friends, absolutly EVERYTHIGN pisses me off. When im really pissed i cant take it i break anything in my vicinity, and i calm myself with alcohol. It makes me feel betetr but i know its a really bad response for being so angry all the time. This hatred for everytihng left me severly apathetic as now i dont care about anything or anyone and im never happy.

DiveDiva
07-18-2005, 09:32 AM
I have had "moments" when I felt this way, but it was never a characteristic. Has something happened to make you both so angry and to harbor such hate? I felt like this during my 2nd marriage to a serial cheater. Since divorcing him... I feel such peace and harmony in life.

I hope you can find peace!

Njoylife
07-24-2005, 05:24 PM
Ok, are you better now or do you want to share the real issues?

mary777
08-04-2005, 12:41 AM
i'm sorry you feel this way. I have my days where I can't stand myself for just hating others. I find that when I go to church God heals me mentally and emotionally. I break down and cry, and its such a relief, because when you go to church not only do you feel refreshed you get healed. Days pass and if I don't pray or ask god to continue healing me I become this horrible person. I know god is my medicine and healer. He can be yours too. Read the bible. For patience read Galatians 5:22 in the bible.

Felicia65
08-05-2005, 09:45 AM
What a sad why to feel, because God did not make us to feel that way, I think your pot is about to over flow. AT one time or another I felt like this,BUT it really was not people I didnt like it was myself, and I felt people just didnt care about what was going on. There are some Great people in this world, and on the other hand there are some that seem to be useless. BUT GOD put every one here for a reason. I think you may need to seek some help for this anger. Seems you have some things in your life that are draining all your energy.

mitley
08-17-2005, 03:28 AM
Porcupine_Tree, I'm exactly like you. I try and drowned my sorrows in alcohol but after several DUI's - I have to drink at home and not drive. That in itself makes me angry because I am left alone again. I also relate to the original poster and how angry they get. I too will never be happy and continue to have to do everyone's job for them.

W3IGHTL0SS
08-17-2005, 11:46 AM
I'M SO TIRED OF ALL OF THE STUPID CRAP THAT GOES ON IN THIS MESSED UP WORLD....I HATE IT!!!!!!

I just want to scream at everyone! I feel like everyone is so freakin stupid, so freakin lazy......the worst part is that I feel like I am too. I hate the things going on, but I'm useless! There is nothing I can do!!!

GRRRRRR!!!!!!!! I'm about to explode with fury!!!!!!!!!
I JUST NEED TO BLOW OFF STEAM!!!!!!!!! :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

Whoa... I suggest you calm down and think about things... unafortunately, there are some people who can be called " stupid ", but there are also many intelligent and kind people out there... don't begin to hate everyone. The main thing is, there is no reason to hate everyone... and especially, don't hate yourself. You aren't useless. You are here for a reason... you just need to think good thoughts, and not depressing thoughts. Just calm down. Nothing's wrong...

timeus
10-17-2005, 09:42 AM
yeah i know what u mean. im pissed off at my partner, i feel like rippin his head off.

man all men are bad in my life.

HayleyApps
10-21-2005, 10:22 AM
I'm also a very angry person. I feel full of hate most of the time. I do the same as porcupine_tree to calm my self (alcohol), and it used to work, but now only seems to make it worse and i generally end up venting while I'm under the influence, which its stupid, coz then the people I'm venting to dont take me seriously, they think I'm just saying it because of the drink.
I'm actually gona try and get some help for my anger. it might help if you thought about seeking help too. I'm not a great fan on therepy but I'm gona give it a shot.

NVR2L8
10-21-2005, 04:06 PM
Sounds like you have a major problem. You may want to do something about it before it gets more out of hand.

vladus123
12-11-2006, 11:10 AM
Ok, honestly, the people on here that offer "help" that do not have anger issues, dont' even bother. You would never understand. And offering help by saying "you should seek professional help" might not be the advice people are looking for either. I know first hand from anger, rage and being ultimately pissed off at everything and everyone around me. I still haven't found a solution to how to make myself "happy" but I know that I will have to deal with who I am and live with it. Even if it means isolating myself somewhere in the mountains!

For people out there that want an answer to why you're so angry all the time... well maybe it's because you just dont' fit into society. Society has been manipulated by the media and the government. They want us to be their little puppets so we can continue feeding Big Brother. Dont' feel like you're different because you're always angry. Try to find someone in your life that can understand you rather then try to help you. Some of us don't need help, we just need someone to understand and most important, someone to listen.

vladus123
12-11-2006, 11:10 AM
oops, I posted twice and I dont' know how to delete the post so I'll edit it instead :)

smackliet
12-12-2006, 10:19 PM
many people view sadness and depression as weakness in there self. It feels safer and stronger to be angry. We protect our selves by turning our percieved weekness in to anger. Just like people who have to fight in war and see these terrible things they cannot sit down and weep over these things so they are trained to turn it into anger. I have this problem and many who have had trama in there life, neglect, abuce, any number of things from early in life. They try to feel stronger. This becomes anger and rage. We don't have any idea why we feel so impatient with people. Any trauma can also cause a chemical change in the brain. If anything is off ballance we can suffer alot of mental challanges. We are so far from perfection. We just have to muddle through trying to be the best us that we can. Sometimes we need to reach out sometimes we just need to excape all stressers for a while.
Sorry you are all suffering. I hope time helps you. I tend to have times when i can't turn off my anger and other times its not so bad.
Best wishes

Isobella
12-22-2006, 02:56 AM
I think the stresses and worries of everyday life make many people angry, as they feel life isn't meant to be this way, with anxieties about money, work, relationships, etc. Sometimes life seems to be nothing but a series of disappointments, as things fall apart and nothing seems to be as we hoped it would. Today life is lived at such a fast rate and people often seem to have no time for one another - there is often no one there to listen when we have worries or concerns. And I think envy can make us angry, when we see other people who we perceive to me more happy or successful than ourselves. This time of year, when we're expected to be on top of the world and everyone is in festive mood, only emphasises feelings of loneliness or bleakness and this in turn can lead to feelings of hatred towards others who seem so happy and carefree.

How to cope with these feelings? Honestly, I'm not sure what the answer is, but I sometimes think it helps to stop comparing our lives to that of other happy and successful people who seem to have so much more than us. Instead, start thinking of people who really do have a reason for feeling bleak and hopeless, such as those who are seriously ill or have suffered bereavement or who have no home or family. I suppose I'm really saying we should count our blessings as this reminds us we have so much to be thankful for. Maybe if we could channel our feelings of anger into anger for the plight of others and then do something to help them we would feel better, simply because we made use of the anger to make someone else's life more bearable. Sorry if this sounds like preaching, it isn't meant to, it's just one way that anger might be used constructively.

npille
12-30-2006, 05:26 PM
It is easy to fuel anger and hate. It feels so horrible and it feels so good not to have those feelings. Number one, you must come to the conclusion that the world is very painful and good both. You can face this truth and choose how you want to feel since you can't change either. In order to do this you must see a doctor because much of this I think is anxiety and depression.
See a doctor or psychologist - there is help. How do I know? Because I am one of you.

So far as your position in society, that will be up to you but it is easier when you FACE THE FACT you cannot change the world and its horrors, only your own destiny and that only to a certain extent. But accepting these facts is of the upmost importance.

Love to you and good luck

dfroman1166
12-31-2006, 02:20 PM
I have those same feelings much of the time! I try to use my anger constructivly- but it is very hard! This may sound very childish coming from a 40 yr old but I feel like the "world is out to get me!" Every time I get ahead something happens to knock me down again. I wish there was a way to stop the cycle!:mad: It becomes a chore to get through the day! Even just driving in the car is maddening people- are so rude! I can't remember the last time I was not cut off,tailgated ect..going to the grocery store is a chore in itself! I like the feeling of knowing that I'm not the only one suffering from these feelings- although I don't wish these feelings on anyone. Maybe were all too sensitive and need to loosen up and see the humor even at our lowest points? I think we care too much , maybe? I try very hard to not let anyone hurt my feelings but- easier said than done. Let's try for an anger free 2007! AGREED?:)

nikelboi
01-20-2007, 12:14 AM
I agree with the previous poster. There is a lot of anger for feeling disenfranchised, left out, uncared for, in whatever way by a family, society, etc that bowed to the status quo. Not having one's basic safety and/or social needs met can leave an emptiness and a knawing pain that takes years to heal.

I was very angry for many, many years. Since I was a child starting before puberty, through to almost 30 years old. Each time I would have an episode, my anger was fully justified, or it was just a mirror image of my experience being outcaste in society. Sometimes I did it so well, trying to 'fill in' for how society treated me and punish myself thru drinking/smoking/reckless behavior to 'deal' with my anger.

Then, one day I woke up and realized how I was hurting myself for what people had done to me, out of my control. By continuing to damage myself, I was continuing their influence on me, I was still the 'outsider': too poor, too crippled, too queer to be seriously considered.

Well, no more. I finally decided to take myself seriously. To laugh (yes, even at myself) more. To truly care for myself as no one has. I stumble and fall, but I still pick myself up and continue on the road. Any other option is capitulating to the past jerks in my life.

Why do I care? Because I finally realize that I, like most people, have something to give and am worthy of my self and others' respect. This takes time. The journey is scary because it was out of my familiarity, that comfort zone. But, slowly I got my sealegs and am much better than before. I still have anger flare ups every once in a while, but trying to be conscious of it and stop it when I can through looking at triggers and warning signs in thinking and perception.

Hope this helps and best wishes!

wormiesaber
01-27-2007, 02:19 AM
Like most people, you are human and get angry and need to release that anger sometimes. If done in a healthy way, for example, when you are alone so that you can tell that person off - or maybe confront the people you hate and tell them off, maybe that will work, actually. Lord knows I have my boiling point. I can be the nicest person in the world, but if you piss me off ....

ok, =

teresa2007
02-13-2007, 10:56 AM
I liked MARY777 answer TRY GOD!!!!!

strongernow
02-13-2007, 09:24 PM
Hi

Uh I am good looking guy who tries really hard to get along but even then it is like an up hill battle. So even if you try it doesn't promise you anything. So ya I feel pretty discouraged and like people are using me and lying to me.:dizzy: :dizzy: :dizzy: :dizzy: :dizzy: :dizzy: :wave:

Mrs.Khan
04-12-2007, 12:26 AM
If its like this always be sure to consult a psychiatrist .I am afraid this can be a psychological problem .Sometimes neurotransmitter release can cause such problems .Also check your thyroid hormone .May be thats high

 
 
 




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