Hello,

My girlfriend is on the Pill and she said that she is due for her period in 5 days. well, we had sex for the first time and I pulled out (i didn't have a condom on) before i ejaculated. Can she still get pregnant? I'm really scared and nervous because this is the first time i never not used a condom? I also am scared of my precum when i was inside of her. Is there anything else she can do prevent from getting pregnant? I'm just really scared and confused about all this. Hopefully you all can shed some light on all this. She is not nervous at all, but i am very very very nervous.

Thanks in advance.

the pill is meant to be a sole form of birth control. If she takes it every day, she has a very, very low chance of being pregnant. You really don't need to worry

IF you're so freaked out about this, why did you have sex without a condom?

the pill is meant to be a sole form of birth control. If she takes it every day, she has a very, very low chance of being pregnant. You really don't need to worry

IF you're so freaked out about this, why did you have sex without a condom?


You right...and i'm really hating myself for not using one. I was very stupid for not using one and i wish i could do it all over again. Bottom line me and her just acted at that moment she was fine with it and is still fine and not worrying now because she in on the pill, but for me it was just a new experience and i acted with my little brain instead of my big brain. Believe me, I trully regret it now.

Dont be silly. If she uses her pill correctly, takes it every day, around the same time, her chances of falling pregnant are smaller then 99.9%.
Do you even know what precum is? precum doesnt always contain sperm. Precum is a fluid released to clear the pathways so that actual sperm can come out...and the only reason precum contains sperm *sometimes* is because the pathways often contain old sperm..now these old sperm some of them arent even alive sperm cells...often these sperm cells get cleared out by urine. The only way people fall pregnant from the pull out method is when they do it when a woman is fertile, without bc, without any form of protection..and they do the pull out method continuesly..this means doing it not just the first time, but the second time also..
Its like this, imagine your girlfriend gave you a hand job or a blow job, and you ejaculated. Then 30 minutes later you had sex using ONLY the pull out method..the precum you would release WOULD contain sperm and this sperm would be very much alive and able to get her pregnant IF she was ovulating , and if she wasnt on any birth control she would have a small chance of falling pregnant this way.

I suggest you stop worrying, i also suggest you either get informed about birth control and sex, or use a condom for the rest of your life.
MOST women on the pill dont use condoms, thats the whole purpose of the pill.

Dont be silly. If she uses her pill correctly, takes it every day, around the same time, her chances of falling pregnant are smaller then 99.9%.
Do you even know what precum is? precum doesnt always contain sperm. Precum is a fluid released to clear the pathways so that actual sperm can come out...and the only reason precum contains sperm *sometimes* is because the pathways often contain old sperm..now these old sperm some of them arent even alive sperm cells...often these sperm cells get cleared out by urine. The only way people fall pregnant from the pull out method is when they do it when a woman is fertile, without bc, without any form of protection..and they do the pull out method continuesly..this means doing it not just the first time, but the second time also..
Its like this, imagine your girlfriend gave you a hand job or a blow job, and you ejaculated. Then 30 minutes later you had sex using ONLY the pull out method..the precum you would release WOULD contain sperm and this sperm would be very much alive and able to get her pregnant IF she was ovulating , and if she wasnt on any birth control she would have a small chance of falling pregnant this way.

I suggest you stop worrying, i also suggest you either get informed about birth control and sex, or use a condom for the rest of your life.
MOST women on the pill dont use condoms, thats the whole purpose of the pill.


Thanks I'm feeling a little bit better. My girlfriend says she will be having her period this thursday. and i will know then. we did it last thursday before, so seven days before her period (Isn't that the most fertile time for a female, but its different when you're on BC pills...right?) I'm just praying everything will be okay. ever since i started freakin out i've been really educating myself on BC pill and other alternatives.

Everything will be fine. Just ask her if she takes her pill on time everday like she is supposed to. If she has missed pills then there is a problem but I remember when me and my boyfriend had sex a long time ago without a condom and it did freak me out but everything was just fine. I have never used condoms since then unless it is a new partner but I take my pill everday and I have never missed in 3 years.

Dont be silly. If she uses her pill correctly, takes it every day, around the same time, her chances of falling pregnant are smaller then 99.9%.
Do you even know what precum is? precum doesnt always contain sperm. Precum is a fluid released to clear the pathways so that actual sperm can come out...and the only reason precum contains sperm *sometimes* is because the pathways often contain old sperm..now these old sperm some of them arent even alive sperm cells...often these sperm cells get cleared out by urine. The only way people fall pregnant from the pull out method is when they do it when a woman is fertile, without bc, without any form of protection..and they do the pull out method continuesly..this means doing it not just the first time, but the second time also..
Its like this, imagine your girlfriend gave you a hand job or a blow job, and you ejaculated. Then 30 minutes later you had sex using ONLY the pull out method..the precum you would release WOULD contain sperm and this sperm would be very much alive and able to get her pregnant IF she was ovulating , and if she wasnt on any birth control she would have a small chance of falling pregnant this way.

I suggest you stop worrying, i also suggest you either get informed about birth control and sex, or use a condom for the rest of your life.
MOST women on the pill dont use condoms, thats the whole purpose of the pill.

wow. i just came across this and that is INFORMATIVE! i had always looked at precum as being almost as "dangerous", in that sense, as actual ejaculate. thanks for clearing that up.

and to the guy, i'm sure everything will be fine. if she's on bc and you pulled out, there is such a small, small chance of her getting pregnant, it's practically non-existant. don't worry! :)

wow. i just came across this and that is INFORMATIVE! i had always looked at precum as being almost as "dangerous", in that sense, as actual ejaculate. thanks for clearing that up.

and to the guy, i'm sure everything will be fine. if she's on bc and you pulled out, there is such a small, small chance of her getting pregnant, it's practically non-existant. don't worry! :)


Thanks everyone...I feel a little bit better now, but i'll feel a lot better when she has her period which she says she expects to happen this thursday. Believe me i'm not going to ever do that again, cause i've never stressed out so much in my life and i hate this feeling!!! This is definetly a learning experience.