Hey..my family is very very rich..but my dad works his butt off every day to get us to that point. Hes a car dealer, and he always has to deal with attorneys and lawsuits, car deals, his bitchy salesmen, and to top it all off, my family is always arguing..from my sisters all the way to my mothers grandparents who upset my dad.

Basically my dad has so much pressure on him every day..he is 55 and im scared of him aging..he already has white hairs, and from what he says, his blood pressure gets high sometimes and he has to take asprin. Im scared of him getting a heart attack or something one day because of this pressure on him..Can anybody help? What can i do to help him ease off a bit? Can this pressure decrease his lifetime? What will happen if this keeps up?

We, as a family, go out often to movies, dinners, etc..and most the times we get in arguments and fights in the car, but my dad is ofter very cheerful with the me and the kids and loves to play around..but then sometimes he gets a very mad temper going..maybe this has something to do with it?

I would appretiate any advice, help, and some info on what might happen with this pressure on my dad..if anything?

Your dad needs to have a good medical checkup to be sure something is not already wrong that can be corrected.

Stress does take it's toll after a while.

His family is in a position to help with his health by not arguing. Yeah, I know, for some reason when kids get into the car war breaks out. Living in a pleasant home enviroment will go a long ways in keeping everyone healthy.

Your dad will have to learn to let some things roll off his shoulders and not take them personally.

Remember, your dad could either be a workaholic or works long hours to avoid a squabbling family.

Maybe your mom and dad would benefit from marriage counseling, just a thought. The family needs to live in harmony.

ok thanks for the advice