I would hate to be in the dating game these days and sex be expected of me for going out and having a good time on a date with a fella. I was a virgin when I married and if I were single again I would be the most lonely old lady around since I doubt very seriously I would change the way I feel about sex outside of marriage, I would say no and there would go the fellas who are only out for a freebie! Fellas get freebies and then hop on over to another flower for another freebie and on and on. Giving freebies does not mean a fella will stick around, most will keep travelling around sampling the goods.

With men and women having sex freely there is a great chance of coming in contact with diseases, multiple partners increase your chance. Everyone is not honest and do not tell their partner they have a disease.

Your fear is trying to tell you something, listen to it. There are lots of nice fellas out there who will respect you without going to bed with them, just have to sort out the hot to trot fellas in order to find the right guy, one who will respect you for who you are.