Lucky2323
08-23-2005, 03:54 AM
Please tell me I am being ridiclous, but I have very bad anxiety, and I am kinda a hipocondriact. Anyways I met a girl this past saturday night and took her back to my house, and we started making out in my hot tub, then we went to my bedroom and she gave me oral sex (without a condom), and we had protected sex for like five minutes until I came. I checked the condom prior to putting it inside her and was very careful when taking it off. The next day I regreted having sex with her because she was very easy, and have had anxiety ever since that I have contracted something from her. I have no visible symptoms, but my glands are swollen and I am my body is sore, but I did party hard all weekend, and worked out hard so that could be the reason for the fatigue and aches. Please tell me if it is possible to get anything using a condom and please tell me that I am being ridiclous. I am very careful and try not to sleep around. I was just drunk and didn't think with the right head! Please get back to me thanks! :)
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iluveeyore
08-23-2005, 04:50 PM
Yes you can get a STD with OR without a condom, HPV for example is transmitted genital flesh to genital flesh, not EVERYTHING is covered by the condom. Go and get tested, it pays to be cautious in this day and age
Lucky2323
08-23-2005, 05:10 PM
I am 100% sure no skin to skin contact was made, I am more worried about getting HIV or HSV2 is it possible to contract these if a condom was worn properly? Ever since I had sex with this girl I have been so worried and fatigued and my body aches. I don't know if I am just worn out from the weekend, or its all in my head. Someone please let me know thanks! :)
woodfaery
08-23-2005, 07:07 PM
Well if you used a condom before you inserted into her vagina you are basically as safe as you can get. It is rare to get HIV from oral sex but it can happen...its not like it doesnt happen, but it is RARE. Just like deep french kissing, you are not likely to get HIV like this at all...but any cuts or open sores leaves you both open to that if one of you is HIV positive. Plus you dont know if she has HIV or not, she may not even have it. Also, yes you can contract herpes or warts but that may not show up right away. As for the most common std's...chlamydia and gonnorhea, syphillis you can get checked for them and all std's free at your local health department. You probably dont have anything to be too concerned about, but next time...wear a condom even when you get oral sex because it will keep you safer.
Oh and by the way, you can stress yourself out and make yourself think you have symptoms even when you dont. Put your mind at ease and just go to the local health department to get tested. Call them up, make an appointment. Its not complicated. Good luck and let me know how it goes.
WF
Oh and by the way, you can stress yourself out and make yourself think you have symptoms even when you dont. Put your mind at ease and just go to the local health department to get tested. Call them up, make an appointment. Its not complicated. Good luck and let me know how it goes.
WF
analog2000
08-24-2005, 09:45 AM
I am 100% sure no skin to skin contact was made
I don't think you understand. There is no way to have intercourse WITHOUT skin to skin contact. "Skin to skin" includes the area of the body not covered by the condom, such as the scrotum, labia, and other genital skin. As you can see, there is just no way to have intercourse without these areas coming into contact.
Having said that, most likely you are fine. Except for HPV, the chance of disease transmission when using a condom is quite low. Usually less than 1%. But it DOES happen. It never hurts to get tested.
Good luck.
I don't think you understand. There is no way to have intercourse WITHOUT skin to skin contact. "Skin to skin" includes the area of the body not covered by the condom, such as the scrotum, labia, and other genital skin. As you can see, there is just no way to have intercourse without these areas coming into contact.
Having said that, most likely you are fine. Except for HPV, the chance of disease transmission when using a condom is quite low. Usually less than 1%. But it DOES happen. It never hurts to get tested.
Good luck.
Lucky2323
08-25-2005, 01:27 AM
I am 100% sure no skin to skin contact was made as I remember I made sure the condom covered every inch of skin on my penis. I was literally inside her for less than five minutes on top of her until I came. My concern is it possible to get HIV or HSV2 through a latex condom? I have no clue whether she has it or not, I just do not sleep around and she was my first random one night stand, and I have felt like crap all week, been fatigued, and sore armpits, and legs all week. I do not know if it is because I am tired from partying all weekend, and I did workout really hard the same night. I know its probaly all in my head, but I just want to know is it possible at all to get HIV or HSV2 by her performing unprotected oral sex on me for a few minutes, and me having protected sex with her for five minutes?
analog2000
08-25-2005, 11:47 AM
I am 100% sure no skin to skin contact was made as I remember I made sure the condom covered every inch of skin on my penis.
What about the skin that is NOT on your penis? Like the scrotum? There is just no way to avoid uncovered skin touching uncovered skin during intercourse. You cannot coat your entire genital area (base of the penis, perineum, labia, etc.) in latex.
I just want to know is it possible at all to get HIV or HSV2 by her performing unprotected oral sex on me for a few minutes, and me having protected sex with her for five minutes?
Of course it is possible, ANYTHING is possible. The point is that it is not very likely. The chances of this actually happening are quite low. But if it is bothering you this much, wait a few weeks and then get tested.
In the meantime, the amount of stress you appear to be under about this probably accounts for all of your symptoms.
Good luck.
What about the skin that is NOT on your penis? Like the scrotum? There is just no way to avoid uncovered skin touching uncovered skin during intercourse. You cannot coat your entire genital area (base of the penis, perineum, labia, etc.) in latex.
I just want to know is it possible at all to get HIV or HSV2 by her performing unprotected oral sex on me for a few minutes, and me having protected sex with her for five minutes?
Of course it is possible, ANYTHING is possible. The point is that it is not very likely. The chances of this actually happening are quite low. But if it is bothering you this much, wait a few weeks and then get tested.
In the meantime, the amount of stress you appear to be under about this probably accounts for all of your symptoms.
Good luck.
Yekcoh4
08-25-2005, 03:37 PM
What about the skin that is NOT on your penis? Like the scrotum? There is just no way to avoid uncovered skin touching uncovered skin during intercourse. You cannot coat your entire genital area (base of the penis, perineum, labia, etc.) in latex.
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The visual of this made me laugh.
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The visual of this made me laugh.
besafe20
08-25-2005, 06:22 PM
I find it funny when guys refer to girls as being "easy" even though they too had sex with the girl on the first time meeting eachother. Perhaps you are easy... Anyways condoms are highly effective against contracting hiv.
besafe20
08-25-2005, 06:25 PM
and any other sexually transmitted transmitted diseases. But also not that hpv can be spread with condoms (doctors confirm this) and herpes type 1 (cold sore type) can go from a person's mouth to a person's genitals. If you get ti you would most likely know in a week.