im 15 and ive madeout with many boys but nothing further im sure!..except for one boy who ive liked n stuff and hes only fingured me? but it was awhile ago and yesterday my clit was sore and i checked it ou and it looked like herpes..and i freaked out completly and went to the doctors but he sent tests in and im finding out friday-but im pretty sure he didnt have a cut...and wouldnt it show up early or sumthin im soo scared!!!..is fingering oral? could i get it that way or wat else could it be..the doctor said there was four things?..in and out im soo scared please help me i cant stop crying :confused:

Fingering is not considered oral sex! Fingering is of course a form of sexual activity, but Oral sex is when someone's mouth is actually on your genitals!

Sweetie I hate to be the bearer of bad news , but it is possible to get Herpes just from skin to skin contact! They say that it is rare, but I was a 14 year old virgin when I first started having symptoms! To this day I have no idea how I got Herpes!!!! Maybe from a shared washcloth or towel who knows! If the guy who fingered you had a Coldsore (HSV1)or Genital Herpes(HSV2) and was having an outbreak then decided to touch himself and finger you without washing his hands beforehand there is a chance that he could have given it to you that way! Have you ever had a coldsore because it is also possible to spread Herpes from one part of your body to the other! All of this may seem a little far fetched but it is possible! I hope everything works out for you sweetie! :angel:

Good Luck sweetheart! :angel: