Right, i know everyone will think im a b***h and i probably am. I have had sex with a friend (unprotected-i thought i'd know better, especially as im a youth clinic worker) about 3 times, i used to have warts they cleared up on their own about 2 months ago-i tried aldara but couldn't tolerate it. i haven't been back to my doctor since, (all very embarrasing, i know him). Now this friend has got a girlfriend who is a lovely person and deserves much better than him (cheating a-hole) as a partner. Anyway, thats all done and we both regret it and it wont happen again, now here is my issue, i thought because i haven't got warts now i couldn't give them to him-is that wrong???
He doesn't know i had them and now she's at risk too.......i dont think their the cancerous types though,
if i tell him he'll hate me for putting him and her at risk (i know it takes 2 to tango and she's the innocent party in all this)
if 99% of people really have the virus at some point is there any point in saying anything as they probably already have the virus and there is nothing i can do about it now, and there is nothing they can do until something shows up.
is there a chance they may never get it, god im so confused, i hate myself already for getting into this mess, but i dont want to lose a friend, or ruin his relationship for a mistake which we both regret.
I know this is really selfish but could i just not say anything because i could have not known i had them and spread them accidently

And now the visable warts have gone how will i know when i no longer put future partners at risk

PLEASE HELP, BEFORE MY MORAL DILEMMA GRINDS ME DOWN