I decided that I was going to post this once and for all in trying to get some answers. I am 34 years old, male, am 40-50 pounds overweight, have scars from surgery from when I was born. Ok - I am OBSESSED with the way I look - it is on my mind all my waking hours but I know that I can never get rid of the scars and the people I've been with sexually never have a problem with it. They say I'm over-reacting by not letting them see me in the light. There is a reason fro this - not enough hair on my legs, having the hair being blonde instead of dark brown (I have fair skin). bite my fingernails and the list goes on and on. I think I have body dysmorphia but I don't have insurance that I can go see someone. I need to know if there is any help for me out there or am I destined to feel like this the rest of my god awful days? I'm getting a panic attack even writing about this - Does anyone else have this issue? Thanks -