H I have a problem with my anger. I have gotten to the point where I am very mad at my young cousins. Nobody seems to care or see things from my point of view. My family dosent want to help me out. Dont get me started on the driving lessons. They figure that I should do things myself rather then have them from experience improvment in my driving ability. A few scares sealed my driving fate in a bad way. But that is only part of the problems. My cousins live with me and they always have their way. Everytime I tell my folks about their bad behavior they tell me to ignore them. But I cannot focus on anything else. I have grudge issues that they dont understand and they have not even tried to see things my way they expect me to be a superman but dam it I am not Clark Kent I am more like Lex Luthor and they cannot accept that. I've been bothered by them on a daily basis things began to improve. But it is hard for me to deal with them because of my temper. The cousins in question can even fake it and I get the blame. That is how bad I got it but that is my perspective I could be wrong. Any interesting way on dealing with both my corrupt family and my cousins would be welcome.

Hon, Are your cousins there due to there own family problems at home? if so that is why they are doing that they feel a little sorry for them. Have you tryed just sitting down and just telling them that this is really getting to you, I mean in a nice way Tell them you feel like no one cares. Try to tell them deep from your heart how you feel. But In a nice way Don;t yell at all. maybe that will get them to listen, Because people tend to react to how we act>>>>>>>>>>>> Felicia

Well first off my cousins are not here due to family problems of their own. But as far as telling them how I feel I am too scared and intimidated to tell them how I feel. But I always help them out they are physically weak one has a bad back. One has problems going up stairs actually someone else has that problem as well. As far as my travel problems go they would rather go to a store that does not have what I seek rather then go to a store that I like and they tell me that is that. I have to settle for Wal Mart rather then go to Mejiers because they dont like Mejiers and Wal Mart is closer. I think that they dont want to go to Mejiers because it is in a city and Wal Mart to them is better. This is just the tip of the iceberg that takes down my Titanic. I am going to ask them to go to Mejiers if they say no then im going to tell them how I feel about that.