It's been one year since my mom's death. It sucks because your friends are all there for you and share your grief when the death actually happens, but when the numbness passes and you actually feel the pain one year later, no one is there. It sucks.

Hi Sara so sorry for your loss, i too lost my mum 23 yrs ago when i was 12.
I had to go live my my dad and wicked step mum who never allowed me to talk about my mum, when i was 17 i moved 250 miles away from my family and have no one now who knew my mum so still have never been able to talk about her.

So i agree with you it sucks, try bringing the subject up with your family and friends as they may be scared to talk about your mum etc in fear of upsetting you but believe me its better to be upset that keep it all in.

Traceyx

:angel: Hi there i am sorry for your grieving. Truth is nobody goes through the same grieving process so unless you tell someone they wont bring it up for fear of upsetting you.. As a griever you have certain days that you feel more vulnerable and as a friend you cant always know when these days are .. the motto" life goes on" is so very true and it goes so fast that only the ones left grieving remember dates.. I hope you have friends to tell and seek your comfort..