Winterlily
10-16-2005, 09:20 AM
Hi,
Hoping someone can clue me in (or reassure me, or something). Had fissure surgery this past Thursday. They repaired a large, deep fissure and also did a sphincterotomy. The pain, still, is AMAZING. I know it's soon after surgery, but the surgeon sort of blithely said it ought to be just about fine in a couple of days, and that the pain would likely be less than what I'd had. Uh-huh, sure. It's awful. Still cannot sit for more than about 10 minutes (and that's all the way over on one hip) and going to the bathroom (EITHER!), is a chore I do NOT look forward too. The "pushing" -- even just of opening that muscle, is way too painful. Also, I have nearly liquid diarrhea -- no clue why, but it can't be helping I guess. Also makes me go way more than I want to. (Funny because I'm 18 weeks pregnant, and for 18 weeks have struggled with constipation... weird.) Also, I can urinate, but only if I sort of squat above the bowl!! If I try to do it sitting normally, it starts to come out, in drips, then stops. Is this from swelling or something or do I need to worry about something new?
My main question is this: How long does it take to stop hurting so much?? It's a constant ache, sometimes nearly unbearable. When does this get better?? I'd told my boss I'd be back to work on Monday (that's tomorrow) -- yeah RIGHT. Some reassurance that this really DOES get better would be great -- I'm starting to get freaky that it's always going to be this bad. Help please?!
Thanks!
Hoping someone can clue me in (or reassure me, or something). Had fissure surgery this past Thursday. They repaired a large, deep fissure and also did a sphincterotomy. The pain, still, is AMAZING. I know it's soon after surgery, but the surgeon sort of blithely said it ought to be just about fine in a couple of days, and that the pain would likely be less than what I'd had. Uh-huh, sure. It's awful. Still cannot sit for more than about 10 minutes (and that's all the way over on one hip) and going to the bathroom (EITHER!), is a chore I do NOT look forward too. The "pushing" -- even just of opening that muscle, is way too painful. Also, I have nearly liquid diarrhea -- no clue why, but it can't be helping I guess. Also makes me go way more than I want to. (Funny because I'm 18 weeks pregnant, and for 18 weeks have struggled with constipation... weird.) Also, I can urinate, but only if I sort of squat above the bowl!! If I try to do it sitting normally, it starts to come out, in drips, then stops. Is this from swelling or something or do I need to worry about something new?
My main question is this: How long does it take to stop hurting so much?? It's a constant ache, sometimes nearly unbearable. When does this get better?? I'd told my boss I'd be back to work on Monday (that's tomorrow) -- yeah RIGHT. Some reassurance that this really DOES get better would be great -- I'm starting to get freaky that it's always going to be this bad. Help please?!
Thanks!

