Alright, let me prefaces by stating that I am a pretty calm individual. My friends all know that I hate alot of people and things and they seem to find that quite amusing, but I don't. It has gotten out of hand. I absolutely hate everybody that it not like me. If someone likes a show I hate, I'll hate them too and tell them a bunch of degrading things, I've lost good friends like this. I don't know what my problem is, I just can't seem to level with ANYONE. Is it because I feel they might be inferior? I'm not a pompous ***** like some guys I know, I just flat out hate everyone and think about how nice it would be to just end their lives. I think I need some help, even my parents say I'm out of control with this whole hatred thing, what do you guys think?

So, let me ask you, why do you think a bunch of strangers can answer better than your parents that have known you all your life? Maybe it's not that you think others are inferior but superior if they can like something you don't. Maybe you feel they know more than you if they do something you don't. Yes, I think you need a therpist. Best of life........

therapist is also a stranger not better than anybody else. At least it was my experience. Nobody can help you but yourself and if you lucky smart friend or parent.

Because therapist can look at a patient with out the biased opinios friends and family have developed. Look at the brain as any other organ in your body. If your lungs weren't working right you would not expect your mother to be able to fix it...unless she was a physican. The mind (brain) also can be best observed and treated by a trained professional

I tried so called therapists two times, they were very biased, opinionated and don't understand me and my family at all. I ended up feeling much worse than I started with.
One therapist told me herself, that care depends if I come from insurance or pay out of my pocket and person can intentinally hurt me if he dislikes me or jealos of something.

I used to be that way. Seemed like the anger was uncontrollable sometimes. Not knowing what else to do, my dad enrolled me into a martial arts school.....Not one of those yuppie schools....I'm talking about one where the real fighters train at. Let me tell you that I got the **** knocked out of me so many times there that I forgot what being angry was all about. I always thought that I could win a fight by just being angry, but instead I learned the hard and painful way that being angry just causes you to lose your edge and become sloppy with technique. My sensei told me that if I ever wanted to become a good fighter like his top students, that I would have to learn how to control my rage and focus that energy. I realized that up till that point I was letting other people control how I felt. I reacted to what they were saying or doing. I wasn't in control of my emotions. I realized that the top fighters knew I was strong, but they would taunt me and make me swing out in anger so that they could get the advantage over me. I became the top student when I enlightened myself on the fact that it's my choice to react to anger, or choose to respond to it. It took several years of learning how to fight to actually learn how to win without fighting.

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porcupine tree you sound like somebody in my bible group that drove me up a brick wall. Pure hatred spewed from one leader and it was hard for me to get along with him. It was unbareable to be near him at times. I wonder WHY people like you HATE and make other peoples lives miserable. Let me tell you what it feels like to be hated by somebody. Personally I fall into the deepest rageful depression that could last up to a few months. I feel waves of intense sadness then intense rage and anger. When I am angry I punch my mattress or a pillow and sometimes yell out curse words in rage and yell out why hate me without bothering to get to know me why! When I am sad I complain, and mope around and ask WHY me over and over. Why am I inferior and worthless and hated by others. All I know is that I am SICK OF IT! I want a happy life not a miserable life.

Galinaqt- So your counseling sessions were bad too? What did your counselor mean that people hurt you because they dislike you or are envious? That is common sense everybody knows that lol. Sometimes counselors should really stop what they are doing and get retrained.

I don't mean just any person hurt me 'cause he is envy or jealos but a councelor who is payed by you and your insurance medical professional. I would at least expect stop having me as a client or tell me what he is not liking instead of charging money to hurt me.
I don't believe in retraining, just cause he read a book and answer questions doesn't make one good person or specialist.

I used to be that way. Seemed like the anger was uncontrollable sometimes. Not knowing what else to do, my dad enrolled me into a martial arts school.....Not one of those yuppie schools....I'm talking about one where the real fighters train at. Let me tell you that I got the **** knocked out of me so many times there that I forgot what being angry was all about. I always thought that I could win a fight by just being angry, but instead I learned the hard and painful way that being angry just causes you to lose your edge and become sloppy with technique. My sensei told me that if I ever wanted to become a good fighter like his top students, that I would have to learn how to control my rage and focus that energy. I realized that up till that point I was letting other people control how I felt. I reacted to what they were saying or doing. I wasn't in control of my emotions. I realized that the top fighters knew I was strong, but they would taunt me and make me swing out in anger so that they could get the advantage over me. I became the top student when I enlightened myself on the fact that it's my choice to react to anger, or choose to respond to it. It took several years of learning how to fight to actually learn how to win without fighting.

Perhaps you can find a similar outlet

Success!!

Awesome advice! I've been feeling a lot of anger for quite some time, and your post is really enlightening. Thank you! :)