If you had been having sex with someone, not in a relationship but sex with only them for say 6 months, and you told them all of a sudden that the last time you had sex it felt like you made love, what would you mean by that? I guess I'm just asking your definition of "making love"

I believe that "making love" is when you both love each other so much that at that moment both of you become one and experience something that can't be described-- to me that's "making love"!!!

when you care more about them, and how they feel, than you care about yourself, and how you feel.

When the feelings are more than physical... and last past the orgasm...

To me making love is just that. Plain sex. Raw, lustful sex. In it only for the pleasures of the body. No love just give it to me baby. I need it.

Now love is passion, can not get enought of that person, loving his body as your own, feeling his heartbeat next to your breast, exploring his mouth in deep kisses, having great oral sex together, laying next to each other after maybe your third hot enounter of the evening. Touching without a sound spoken. Orgasms without having to tell the other person, feeling you are one instead of two.

Of course I have been married 47 years and maybe my views may be outdated.