Ok, basically I lied to my GF. As miniscule or big some may perceive, fact is I lied TWICE and she hates lying period. I've lost her trust completely and she has left me. I also believe my unsensitivity and inability to comprehend the emotions a pregnant woman goes thru, contributed to this problem.

This is the woman I want to marry. She has been burned before, and I am yet another dumb guy that has burned her. I want/need to fix this, I can't live w/o her.

Basically, I AIM'd another woman(my friends fiance) continuously and vented my feelings, concerns and questions to her rather than my GF. She found out by catching me on the computer while I was doing the venting portion. My first reaction was to hide it from her- bad idea. I let her read the backlogs of our conversation in which I had put things such as calling her f'ing crazy, document behavior to take our baby from her, etc. Lets just say she wasn't please by the least and only after its said and done that i realized i f'd up.

I've been in a state of limbo just thinking and realize how she may have seen it and I take everything I ever said back and want to start anew.

Thnx in advance for any advice.

This has got what to do with depression?

My ex husband did that to me, hence the reason he is my EX

if he has depression anyway that could take him down further??? I'm just guessing... I don't know.. lol.

A: you know you shouldn't have done that... however I know about having to vent... sounds like y'all needed better communication. I don't know any advce to get her back. I'm in a spot with the man i was going to marry too *cry* ... I wish HE would atleast have the balls to tell me WTH is going on and we could start over... so atleast you're that much more. Are you buds with this friends fiance? I'm well aware that guys & gals can be JUST friends ... so i won't pull that *#$# on ya...... but you should have let her know there were issues in you rhead, and talked them out. What you said about the baby though was probably the kicker.

If you are serious you need to not grovel... cause that's just annoying as hell..... and try to set up a time where you will not be disturbed (baby, friends, etc), sit down in a mutual place, and TALK. Communication (or lack there of) is a BIG BIG BIG problem in relationships. I know what I'm talking about with that anyway. I was dumped 3 weeks ago on an IM (though he didn't use those words.... he wasn't leaving me or giving up on me... but i've had 2 emails from him since, one IM that I missed and 1 phone call and he won't talk about "us" ..... so my broken heart and crying eyes tell me I'm dumped)...... and I have NO clue why... this from the man who is upfront about EVERYTHING.... he won't talk at all now. :( SO just try to not go off one way or another, bite your cheek if you have to... and talk. try not for anyone to yell, if she does, then you have to stay calm and cool... she has a right to quite frankly with the stuff you said. But that is how I see anything working out at all. Good luck.

i'm 15 years old and im new at this school. well i start meeting a lot fo guys. i meet one special guy that i start to hang out with. so we satrt to go out bf gf. i have never fallen in love, like really fall in lvoe with a guy before and he was my first. well i end up loosing my "v" to him. and about two weeks after that happend we broke up. i was so sad. well he came to me and told me he was really sorry and wanted to try over again. but we only ended up goin ut for like 3 weeks. and now we won't talk to me and he has a gf now. when he sees me he trys to pretend not to and his face gets all red. and i still love him, i gave him something i will never get back. and im just not happy anymore and i don't know what to do. i can't stop thinking about him.

Hey..

I'm sorry to tell you this but it sounded like he was only using you. I'm sorry to say. He wanted to have sex and you was going out and he lost it to you. I don't know if he loved you or actually loved you. I can't tell unless i saw him. But from what your saying it sounds like he was using you. By having a new gf now also sounds like hes trying to make you jelous. Thinking about it if hes got a gf so soon it means he didnt feel anything for you.

I'm sorry to say this stuff but i think its true everything i have said. It sounds like what guys do. Just wanna get ''their leg over''. I'm sorry.

Lovesux I am sorry for your heart ache. Many women have given their precious once in a lifetim gift to a man who was not deserving (me too). Try to avoid seeing him until you are healed. and be careful not to fall into same rebound type relationship. Good luck you are young and there is a lot of opprutunity out there for you !