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Kiera1595
12-09-2005, 07:26 AM
I know this is a strange thread, but I'm wondering if any one else has experienced this? I've never heard of such a thing.

DD HATES books. She's 9 months now and will cry every time I try and read to her. I feel so bad. I read to her bother every day from the day he was born. In her 9 mnoths she's probably had a book read to hear from start to finish 3 times. And I'm talking the 6 page baby books. I've tried holding her, not holding her, letting her hold the book. She just doesn't like it.

I'm sure she won't spend her entire life not reading, but like I siad, have any of you gone through this? It's so strange.

rouge
12-09-2005, 09:13 AM
My son did not really care for books either. I kept getting a lot of slack from family about not reading to him. He just hated it. I would keep trying once a day but did not push it. If he cried I just stopped.

I think he did not like the books becasue he was more interrested in the "big picture" of the world. He did not like to only focus on a small thing, when he could be exploring the whole room.

He now loves books and reads them all day. Mabye your DD is the same way?

10kDilsey
12-09-2005, 10:59 AM
She's 9 months now and will cry every time I try and read to her. I feel so bad.

My son was the same way, and as someone who majored in English in college, reads eveyrthing in sight, and works parttime as a writer, this was quite the blow... :eek:

I just kept trying and now at the age of five he reads or tries to read everything in sight. Some days DH and I wish he would knock it off. :D

andilyn
12-09-2005, 11:41 AM
I too have experienced this. My DD didn't want anything to do with books as a baby. We tried everything, and then one day I just finally said "enough is enough". Why push it, ya know? I figured that if we pushed her into books when she didn't like them, then in the end, this could make her not like them for good. And now she's 2 and a half years old, and has tons and tons of books and can't go an hour it seems without plopping down on the floor to read one. She loves them to death! So it's probably just a phase that will pass. She's probably so busy trying to learn other things, that sitting there to look at a book isn't as fun as watching or doing something else. I wouldn't worry one bit about it. Like you said, she won't always not want to read.

JenW67
12-09-2005, 01:29 PM
Liam sometimes gets too excited if we read. I think he likes it but I can't really tell. He starts kicking his legs and wheeling his arms and making whooping noices. I don't read to him before bed because it does not calm him. If we read too long, he gets cranky.

Maybe I should read to him in the morning.

Laur77
12-10-2005, 01:34 PM
She probably just finds it boring right now. I agree with andilyn, probably best not to push it or she may end up hating it for good! I'm sure she'll grow into liking books, right now she is probably just more interested in what's going on around her, than concentrating on something so close to her face.

AmyW
12-10-2005, 11:04 PM
I know this is a strange thread, but I'm wondering if any one else has experienced this? I've never heard of such a thing.

DD HATES books. She's 9 months now and will cry every time I try and read to her. I feel so bad. I read to her bother every day from the day he was born. In her 9 mnoths she's probably had a book read to hear from start to finish 3 times. And I'm talking the 6 page baby books. I've tried holding her, not holding her, letting her hold the book. She just doesn't like it.

I'm sure she won't spend her entire life not reading, but like I siad, have any of you gone through this? It's so strange.

My son is the same way. He won't sit still for one minute long enough for me to attempt a story, which I thought he would enjoy. He's 17 months old, by the way, and prefers eating his books, rather than looking at them! LOL I'm constantly having to watch him, because he tries to gnaw off the corners of his books.

I think they'll just have to get a bit older before the bedtime story or just a story seems inviting. Guess we'll just have to wait!

Amy

Kiera1595
12-13-2005, 11:16 AM
Thanks to all of you. I guess I forget that well all learn in different ways and yes, she does seem to be a lot more interested in the big picture. It's always nice to hear that other people's babies have done the same thing. LOL at Amy whose son would rather eat the books.

 
 
 




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