I was doing some ****pedia-ing, and I ran across these pages:

http://en.****pedia.org/****/Love-shyness
http://en.****pedia.org/****/Avoidant_personality_disorder

...and now I think I should see a shrink...

lol, this site blanks part of it out, but I think that the jist of what I was trying to say got across.