pradasweets1983
12-29-2005, 06:48 PM
I hate it...I come off as rude. I don't mean to but I can't help it.. I do it all the time.I don't like talking on the phone because that is when I interrupt the most in the middle of a conversation..or sentence.
When I married, I moved far from all my friends and family and so in order to keep in touch, I have to use the phone.
A lot of people to me, talk so slow..and it's like I can't take it or something so I butt in...I don't know why I do this!..but to people who don't know about ADD and the quarks associated with it, I just come off as rude.
It is not a good way to make friends..and I really want to stop doing it. I am a nice person. Really. Anyone else with ADD ever interrupt others often?
MuskokaMommy
12-29-2005, 08:54 PM
My DH has ADHD and yes he does interrupt constantly. You can be in mid conversation and its like he tunes out and jumps in with his own thoughts. I believe this to be a common trait for those with ADHD, at least I know it is for some children.
resqmanswife
12-30-2005, 12:52 AM
Yup here to I'm ADD , 12 yr. old Daughter ADD and 8 yr. old son ADHD (fun at my house lol) and I do it the worst but we all interupt, I have found in my case though if I don't say it NOW I'll forget so that's why I interupt usually.
I hate the phone! I can't focus on conversation because other things are going on and people hate that as much as interupting.
I would have to sit in an empty room to be able to have a real conversation on the phone I think.
good Luck
Debby
finkydinky
12-31-2005, 03:06 PM
i feel terribly rude when i do that...i totally dont mean to...it just sorta happens..the worst is when people get upset..i understand why they wouldnt want to be interupted..and they have every right to feel that way...but if they only knew...that we just cant always control it :wave:
index.html
12-31-2005, 10:06 PM
Anyone else with ADD ever interrupt others often?
I'm afraid it's VERY common. The average human can think much faster than they can speak. Doubly so for someone with ADD!
seriousperson
01-01-2006, 06:27 PM
ditto what index.html said. I do find that the combination of medication and motivation (in the form of a boss who does not appreciate the creative brainstorming of interruptions) have helped me to stop and think before I speak.
This is new for me and I'm 52, so I'd have to say being a child isn't a prerequisite for chronic, uncontrolable, interrupting. And it's not something you can "outgrow."
As an aside (er, ah, interruption of my thoughts and yours) pradasweets1983...
you mentioned having just relocated geographically, which reminds me of how--since learning about ADHD--I realise that some of my decisions to relocate were in part triggered by a desire to start over with a new group of neighbors, coworkers, etc. who didn't know me as an interrupter (among other things).