[FONT=Verdana][SIZE=2][COLOR=Black][I] This is my first time to this board, I wanted some information and or some adivice.. from People who are dealing with HSV and HPV.. Real people who have been living with this. Ive looked up so much information regaurding both.. and I am soooo Confused!! Ok first, I was told by my Gyn that I have HPV, just last week, read many things, like If youve ever had sex.. You probably have HPV!! THEN.. as I was surfing and reading all the Information that came up, I read about HSV, ONLY because.. as I was.. I had recalled.. that earlier the week before.. I had noticed.. a sore(cold sore) on my Boy friends Nose.. at the time I truly thought nothing of it.. however... when I realized that the sore I had a few days later .. WASNT an ingrown hair due to shaving... I FREAKED OUT!!! I then looked up More Info regaurding HSV 1 and 2... and went to him..I told him.. I was sure its what I had..and the it came from his cold sore.. because I have NEVER had anything like this, and when it comes to personal hygene.. and being CLEAN in THAT area... Im extreemly picky.. and I know my body!! Long story short..I told him every thing I knew.. and read.. he feels AWFUL!!! I made a dr. appointment.. she has confirmed.. my sucpisions..and Put me on Meds..for the Initial OB.. and wants me to take daily meds.. also(valtrex)!! As of now My biggest concern.. is this... WE had decided to try to get pregnant before any of these issues came up.. However.. we didnt succeed this time, but I have my calander all set up as far as when we are optimal to GET PREGNANT.. which is in about a week.. I am currently still going through my first OB! Should we or shouldnt we continue to try to get pregnant?.. will it harm the baby if Im going through an OB at the time of conception?.. Will my OB..get worse, last longer, due to getting pregnant? Is it really safe to be on meds for the whole pregnancy? I have also heard ALOT of Herbal remedies, is there ONE that Most use..and stand by?!!.. We truly want to have another child, however.. as for every parent or to be parent.. we want to ensure the Health of that Child!!! If anyone has ANY advice.. please respond!! Thanks so much!!
Mommy is what I do best!!!!

Whoa,
You sound confused.... :eek: But, you've appeared at a great message board, with alot of wonderful people, who offer both knowledge and experience concerning HSV. :wave: I don't really know anything about HPV. Ok..., first of all breathe.....Sorry, you've been diagnosised with HSV., most of us here have it. You are right, you probably did get it from your boyfriend's cold sore, a fairly easy way to trasmit this virus. Good for you - researching all the info, that you can. Keep in mind herpes, can act differently in different bodies. It will take some time for you to "learn you body", as far as initial symptons and triggers, things that can make the virus active. Such as stress, lack of sleep, poor diet and a big one for me, is my monthly period. This virus effects everyone - differently. I also, believe that some of the online pictures, only shows the "extreme" cases. On the main herpes message board screen, that lists all the threads, in the upper right side, there is a search box (blue box, that says search this board)....Type in Herpes & Pregnancy, there should be alot of good information for you there. As far, as trying to get pregnant - that's a personal choice, that you can only answer for yourself. Once, you have all the infomation that you need regarding your recent diagnosis'. I've had HSV for almost 2.5 years and this was after, I've already had my 2 children. My best advice, would be to "learn your body", read as much as you can, without being overwhelmed, and "listen to your body", as this virus adjusts to your system. Also, "ask questions" - it is the only way to learn....Oh yeah, patience is also key......(this one - usually damns me, LOL)
Hopefully, something here was helpful and I'm sure other board members, will offer their support & suggestions.....Peace, :) -shinyOrn

Hi. I also have HPV and genital HSV1. As far as the HPV goes, I don't think it interferes much with getting pregnant or during the pregnancy, for that matter. Keeping your immune system as strong as you can is the best defense for both of these diseases. But what I've learned about HSV, if I understand correctly, if you get pregnant during an inital outbreak or a bad one, I think you have more of a chance of passing it on to the baby - as in they will have those antibodies present in their system. I could be totally wrong about that... But I do know that if you have a bad outbreak during the time of your delivery, they would do a C-section so as not to pass it on to the baby through a vaginal delivery. Like shinyornament said, it's completely your decision and it takes time to know your body and how it reacts to this virus. Keep researching and talk to your doctors about your questions and concerns about conceiving at this time. Good luck to you!

You have found a good site here and some folks who have given me positive advice. Is it absoultely necessasry you get pregnant this time?

I just ask because it is recommended that you avoid intercourse when you have a breakout of herpes. It wont harm the baby if you conceive while on an outbreak, but you could transmit genital herpes to your partner while you are on an outbreak. Unless that is something the two of you have already discussed and he does not mind the risk of tranmission genitally. There is a wealth of information about herpes, having sex during outbreaks which can be terribly painful, cause it to spread inside of your vagina and urinary tract.

So it is a personal decision. It is good that you have an understanding doctor who is informing you of supressive treatments and got you on drugs during your outbreak. Good luck, remember with your body, it is always your own decision. One thing for sure is that millions of women worldwide who have herpes have given birth to healthy herpes free babies. So no worry there!

I want to thank those who replied to my questions.. I also need to say.. I am so glad.. there is somewhere to talk, ask questions about this. Just finding out.. Im going through a roller coaster of emotions..(which Im sure you all have gone through) and Im not sure what to do with every thing Im feeling and thinking. I know how to be many things, Mother, advocate, Significant other, homemaker, friend, ect.. I just dont know how to Be all that.. and the woman who has HSV. I dont mean for this to sound like a pitty party, Just really trying to sort it all out, Its all so overwhelming.. and Im sure you all would agree!! I have SOOO many more questions..it nearly has my head spinning, Like should I freak out.. every time I have an "Itch"!! what about all the ads Ive seen for some of the treatments..Herbal, and what not!! Uhhhhggg...Ok!! I need to get some rest!! Trust me.. Ill be here often!! Thanks again to ShinyOrn, Jaylite, and OhCanada!!!

Mommyagainx5 ~
Maybe you could start writing a list of all your ??'s, ones that you want to ask the boarders - here and questions for your doctor. Your feelings at this time are quite normal. It is an emotional rollercoaster, in the beginning and even sometimes afterwards. The best thing to do, is boost your immune system with vitamins. Also, read around this board for natural supplements, decide if you want to go that route and learn, learn, learn your body. This does take time....But, be good to yourself, don't stress (it's not going to change anything) and find time to do the things that you enjoy. HSV does suck, but it's not the end of the world, it only seems that way in the beginning. Taking care of yourself both physically & mentally, can make a really big difference.I know, alot of these suggestions are easier said, than done...(back to that patience thing). But, trust me - you will be o.k....Type anytime & soothing thoughts, -shinyOrn.

THIS BRING A QUESTION FOR ME TOO AND SOMETHING THAT MOMMYAGAIN NEEDS TO KNOW TOO:
My question...something that's bugging me and I can't get an answer. I believe it was Ohcanana that said that she wouldn't want to pass it to her partner but he's the one that gave it to her??????? OK so this is THE QUESTION!!!!!!!! If he gave her herpes from cold sores on his face, she then has them genitally...can he that had not had them genitally before but on his face/mouth(say for years) get them genitally now? I'm thinking yes but I don't know for sure. This is something I need to know because of my situation but this poster would need to know this too.

I have had HSV for 14 years I have 2 children and you can get pregnant during your intial OB just as long as you are not having a OB when you deliver. If you have a active OB when it is time to deliver you will be scheduled for a C-Section. It causes no harm to the fetus and you will be just fine. After you have you baby whenever you have and OB make sure your baby does not come in contact with your washcloth or things of that nature. Wash your hands with antibacterial soap before touching your baby to keep it from spreading. My children are 8 and 3 and we are now trying for a 3rd. Good Luck. If you have any questions let me know. :angel: