Hi every1,
I am so depressed I meet the man of my dreams I love him to death and I know he loves me. Sounds like everything is fine and it may seem like that to people who didn't know me well. But for the past two months my life has been nothing but hell. Now alot of you will agree that I'm wrong and I'm willing to take that cause I need to vent. Now for my story...
I meet this guy online and we spoke once or twice but that was it. Then my sis was like look at this guy I'm talking to and it was him I was like hey I was talkin to him you stole him from me but I was kiddin....kinda. So months went by and she told me she was his girlfriend but she had a man living wit her. It kinda bothered me cause I kinda liked the guy but i didnt say nothing. He came by the house acouple times and I started really liking him. Everytime she spoke about him it was something bad but I never saw what she said. She never cared about him she cheated, lied, and denyed him to everyone she came around. Me and him became really cool and started talking all the time. And then she said he was immature and broke up with him. In the mix of them breaking up me and him started talkin everyday and the last time he passed by the house I did the craziest thing and kissed him. I didnt believe in love at first sight till that day but it was more like love at first kiss. I instantly fell in love with him. I kept talking to him on the low and stayin over his house. I meet his mom and I love her and he has a two year old daughter that I just adore. I thought it was the right thing to do to come clean and tell my sister and she went crazy on me talking about I'm messed and she pretty much cursed me out. She keeps telling me to stop talking to him and all this. I honestly can't see my life without him. I talk to him everyday. He asked me to marry him. Just today she verbally attacked me for the third time. Telling me, that's how she put it, shes telling me to stop talking to him. I don't know what to do.
This might seem childish to some of you but this is my life. It seem pretty high school to me as I type it but I need advice. Ima go crazy!!!!

This sounds like a relationship issue rather than depression, though I know relationship issues can trigger depression.
Yes, it does sound pretty high school. Perhaps you might get good suggestions and more sharing of personal experience on what worked for others in similar situation at the forum on relationship health ? ( it is one of Health issue topics on healthboards site)

I think your sister is jealous that you have the guy now. She shouldn't have been having any relationship with him if she was already with another guy!!
If you were talking to him first and you like him, I say, to hell with your sister!!
How old is your sister? younger or older than you?
If this guy makes you happy, then don't make yourself unhappy for your sister!! She doesn't seem to care if YOU are happy!

BTW, you are not to blame for your sister being this way. She has the problem, not you! Good luck and be happy!

I think your sister is jealous that you have the guy now. She shouldn't have been having any relationship with him if she was already with another guy!!
If you were talking to him first and you like him, I say, to hell with your sister!!
How old is your sister? younger or older than you?
If this guy makes you happy, then don't make yourself unhappy for your sister!! She doesn't seem to care if YOU are happy!

BTW, you are not to blame for your sister being this way. She has the problem, not you! Good luck and be happy!


Thank you for the advice. She's younger than me. And he does make me happy I see me and him getting married and having kids together.

This sounds like a relationship issue rather than depression, though I know relationship issues can trigger depression.
Yes, it does sound pretty high school. Perhaps you might get good suggestions and more sharing of personal experience on what worked for others in similar situation at the forum on relationship health ? ( it is one of Health issue topics on healthboards site)


Well its not really a relationship problem I dont have a problem wit him its my sister thats causing the problem. When I wrote this I was so low and i seriously needed to vent. I cried all night and I still feel terrible. I will look into the relationship health board i didnt know it exsisted. I'm new to this site sorry for that.