chevyman
02-04-2006, 06:15 PM
Has anybody ever got pissed or maybe discourage to somewhat if your out Buffet with your spouse g/f...b/f or realtive/ friend ect,,,ect,, you look at deserts? for me it's Ice Cream (my weakness) or that big piese of mouth watering chocolate cake or maybe that /coconut cream pie, pretty piese of that strawberry cheese cake or what ever it may be and they tell you ''you better "not" eat that your on a diet you know thats a no no"...and go into details bout whats bad for you ect,,ect,, I hate that...is it just me?
They ought to be a law bout them buffet's putting them deserts out for everyone to see....do you guys agree..
They ought to be a law bout them buffet's putting them deserts out for everyone to see....do you guys agree..
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justinluck
02-04-2006, 06:58 PM
LOL, I learned long ago not to advise my girlfriend on what or what not to eat. I wouldn't like someone telling me that either. It would feel like nagging, as if I didn't already know better.
OutToLunch
02-04-2006, 07:15 PM
Chevyman, it depends. If I had a partner, I would probably ask them to assist me in reaching my goals. I would even go so far as to request that they "catch me" if I'm on the verge of slipping. So if I was tempted to go for a dessert and they politely reminded me that I was on a diet, not only would I not be upset, I would be greatful to them for looking out for me. But if I never asked them to do that for me, then I might take issue with them telling me to avoid dessert. So I guess it depends on whether you want your partner to help you lose weight and their tone when they do offer their help.
Now if I had a partner who was trying to lose weight, I would NEVER tell her how to eat or when, unless she specifically asked for my advice. But I would be careful to never make it seem like I was talking down to her and if we went out to eat, I would assume she knew what she was doing. If she wanted dessert, I wouldn't stop her or tell her why it's bad. I'd rather she enjoy herself and not feel deprived.
Now if I had a partner who was trying to lose weight, I would NEVER tell her how to eat or when, unless she specifically asked for my advice. But I would be careful to never make it seem like I was talking down to her and if we went out to eat, I would assume she knew what she was doing. If she wanted dessert, I wouldn't stop her or tell her why it's bad. I'd rather she enjoy herself and not feel deprived.
Holly4k9
02-04-2006, 10:43 PM
My husband is pretty good about keeping comments to himself... but his brother is another story. I had an anxiety attack just before Christmas because I was so worried about what he would say about the food on my plate this time...
I tend to avoid him.
I tend to avoid him.
OutToLunch
02-05-2006, 12:30 AM
Tell your husband to tell his brother to keep his mouth shut. I would never tell my sister-in-law how to eat.
pipermac
02-05-2006, 12:35 AM
ya...that is a pain.......they gotta realize it is not a "Diet" Its a change in Lifestyle......And That doesnt mean you cant have those things...but you have to cut down on them. :)