Lotus_Blossom
02-06-2006, 08:38 AM
How many Women would fake Pregnancy to hold onto a Man or prevent him from leaving when she knows he loves and wants to be with another Woman?I'm not sure if it is common but am curious as I'm certain it happens more frequently than we imagine..
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stacezilla
02-06-2006, 02:15 PM
some chicks are insane
well thats just stupid cause either a) he'll run off if hes a jerk or b) what are you going to do when over the months you don't have any gyno appts. & if you fake appts. what are you going to do if he wants to tag along, & your tummy dosen't grow its all stupid you'll lose him one way or another if you lie about being preg. it's stupid cause it's obvious after the first 4-5months & when he finds out he'll leave you still, it's all just really stupid
if he loves someone else let him go, because lieing about being pregnant to keep him for an extra few months is just gonna make you misrable cause you know he'll leave you eventually still for her after he found out you lied, or just leave you for lieing about something like that when you can just let him leave you now and in those few extra months you can spend that time relationship rehabbing ;)
Women are retarded sometimes I don't reccomend lieing to keep someone just sit and talk with them and try to work it out. That'd probley work alot better!!!
well thats just stupid cause either a) he'll run off if hes a jerk or b) what are you going to do when over the months you don't have any gyno appts. & if you fake appts. what are you going to do if he wants to tag along, & your tummy dosen't grow its all stupid you'll lose him one way or another if you lie about being preg. it's stupid cause it's obvious after the first 4-5months & when he finds out he'll leave you still, it's all just really stupid
if he loves someone else let him go, because lieing about being pregnant to keep him for an extra few months is just gonna make you misrable cause you know he'll leave you eventually still for her after he found out you lied, or just leave you for lieing about something like that when you can just let him leave you now and in those few extra months you can spend that time relationship rehabbing ;)
Women are retarded sometimes I don't reccomend lieing to keep someone just sit and talk with them and try to work it out. That'd probley work alot better!!!
Faythey
02-06-2006, 02:59 PM
I really hope it doesnt happen more often than we think. Faking anything is generally not a good idea, especially a pregnancy.
Either way, that man still has a choice to leave and not be with his childs mother. I think that would just end up turning a man away even more.
Either way, that man still has a choice to leave and not be with his childs mother. I think that would just end up turning a man away even more.
Lotus_Blossom
02-06-2006, 03:06 PM
Like I mentioned in my other post about Pregnancy out of spite the chic has dug her own grave because there is a 99.99% possibility he is infertile..I'm sure he didn't mention anything to her about it cos he didn't me I figured it out on my own..his ex before me(who didn't get Pregnant while with him)is now married to another Man and they have a Baby..even if she were Pregnant(which is highly unlikely)she would still lose him..their relationship is not stable,happy or love filled,she can't properly take care of him(she can't take care of herself)and there are sexual plays he enjoys that she won't perform(perhaps Pregnancy is another brilliant idea so she won't have to sex with him)..they have been together a little over 1 year and have only been with each other face to face 3 or 4 times in that time frame..they are together now since second or third week in November..seems fishy to me after she telling him she doesn't want Babies/not ready to have Babies then finding out he was still at me she is now all of a sudden Pregnant..it's like a lightbulb clicked in her silly little childish head to do something off the wall crazy just to hold onto him..wrong move brat!I do NOT put ANYTHING past this number..
Faythey
02-06-2006, 03:28 PM
Even if she is faking, i dont think their is much you can do about it.
If you try to call her bluff and you're wrong, it makes you look kind of foolish. Besides, if it seems like you're attacking her, your man might feel sorry for her and run back. Just let it play it. It'll come out that shes not pregnant. I'm going to assume your man would notice when theres no baby in 9 months.
If you try to call her bluff and you're wrong, it makes you look kind of foolish. Besides, if it seems like you're attacking her, your man might feel sorry for her and run back. Just let it play it. It'll come out that shes not pregnant. I'm going to assume your man would notice when theres no baby in 9 months.
Lotus_Blossom
02-06-2006, 03:54 PM
Faythey,
I hope it doesn't happen often either(wish it didn't happen period)..Babies are gifts and people who use them to their advantage are making a very wrong move..the Man is miserable and will not stay with her Baby or no Baby..
I hope it doesn't happen often either(wish it didn't happen period)..Babies are gifts and people who use them to their advantage are making a very wrong move..the Man is miserable and will not stay with her Baby or no Baby..
Lotus_Blossom
02-06-2006, 03:57 PM
I'm really not doing/saying anything about it..
summertyme
02-06-2006, 06:36 PM
If I had a dollar for every time I've heard "I don't know how I got pregnant/got her pregnant, I thought I was infertile."
I have an acquaintance who found out at age 20 she was fertile (I don't know what doctor told a teenage girl she was infertile, but she thought she was.) She found out again when she was 25 that she was still fertile. Oh, her husband was also "infertile" too! The moral of this story is: People who claim infertility turn up pregnant or father children ALL THE TIME.
You seem to be making a really big deal about this and taking a lot of joy from someone else's turmoil. I know you want the guy back, but being catty like this is not a great way to hold onto a decent man.
I have an acquaintance who found out at age 20 she was fertile (I don't know what doctor told a teenage girl she was infertile, but she thought she was.) She found out again when she was 25 that she was still fertile. Oh, her husband was also "infertile" too! The moral of this story is: People who claim infertility turn up pregnant or father children ALL THE TIME.
You seem to be making a really big deal about this and taking a lot of joy from someone else's turmoil. I know you want the guy back, but being catty like this is not a great way to hold onto a decent man.
MzPrincessReina
02-06-2006, 11:07 PM
I knew tons of girls who lied, some severl times just for either attention or to try n keep the guy. but in most cases he leaves anyways
Lotus_Blossom
02-10-2006, 01:30 PM
Summertyme,
You can not even begin to understand the hell we went through but I'm the one being catty?!I'm not the Woman that has taken him for every dollar,not wanting him except for his money and refused to spend time with him but ended up with him and now is faking Pregnancy or got Pregnant for spite just to continue getting what it is she wants..what happened was his Sister bought her love..you can't buy love..
You can not even begin to understand the hell we went through but I'm the one being catty?!I'm not the Woman that has taken him for every dollar,not wanting him except for his money and refused to spend time with him but ended up with him and now is faking Pregnancy or got Pregnant for spite just to continue getting what it is she wants..what happened was his Sister bought her love..you can't buy love..
Lotus_Blossom
02-10-2006, 01:52 PM
MzPrincessReina,
This Gal is 24 yeas old..she has never worked,can't even cook,manage finances or drive..she doesn't take proper care of herself or her surroundings.. has done nothing except go to School..it has taken her 6 years to complete a 3-4 year degree..it wouldn't be so bad if she worked too..but she has been given money and gifts freely to keep him away from me..he is almost 10 years older,a Professional well educated and travelled..with her age and background and knowing what I know about her I do not put it past her to do such especially after she found out he was still contacting me because she started hollering I'm Pregnant not long after..
This Gal is 24 yeas old..she has never worked,can't even cook,manage finances or drive..she doesn't take proper care of herself or her surroundings.. has done nothing except go to School..it has taken her 6 years to complete a 3-4 year degree..it wouldn't be so bad if she worked too..but she has been given money and gifts freely to keep him away from me..he is almost 10 years older,a Professional well educated and travelled..with her age and background and knowing what I know about her I do not put it past her to do such especially after she found out he was still contacting me because she started hollering I'm Pregnant not long after..
Hopey_81
02-10-2006, 05:00 PM
MzPrincessReina,
This Gal is 24 yeas old..she has never worked,can't even cook,manage finances or drive..she doesn't take proper care of herself or her surroundings.. has done nothing except go to School..it has taken her 6 years to complete a 3-4 year degree..it wouldn't be so bad if she worked too..but she has been given money and gifts freely to keep him away from me..he is almost 10 years older,a Professional well educated and travelled..with her age and background and knowing what I know about her I do not put it past her to do such especially after she found out he was still contacting me because she started hollering I'm Pregnant not long after..
At least she is in school dear and trying some have a hard time with school like i said in the other thread u made maybe its time to move on and worry about the life u have now:)
This Gal is 24 yeas old..she has never worked,can't even cook,manage finances or drive..she doesn't take proper care of herself or her surroundings.. has done nothing except go to School..it has taken her 6 years to complete a 3-4 year degree..it wouldn't be so bad if she worked too..but she has been given money and gifts freely to keep him away from me..he is almost 10 years older,a Professional well educated and travelled..with her age and background and knowing what I know about her I do not put it past her to do such especially after she found out he was still contacting me because she started hollering I'm Pregnant not long after..
At least she is in school dear and trying some have a hard time with school like i said in the other thread u made maybe its time to move on and worry about the life u have now:)
Lotus_Blossom
02-10-2006, 05:29 PM
Alot of people have trouble in School but then most everyone works too..they don't laze about,take 6 hours at a time,not do anything else and expect money and gifts to be handed at them at lib..I have not one ounce of pity for her..
Hopey_81
02-10-2006, 08:52 PM
im 24 dont go to school nor work sweety i have a 4 yr old boy plus a lil girl on the way as well she is due in march just stop stressing over this other girl its not worth it at all
Lotus_Blossom
02-10-2006, 09:03 PM
And you probably don't have everything handed to you like she does..the more you give a person the more they will continue taking without reciprocating..he and his Family are her meal ticket..and it will only get worse if it isn't stopped..
Hopey_81
02-10-2006, 10:47 PM
And you probably don't have everything handed to you like she does..the more you give a person the more they will continue taking without reciprocating..he and his Family are her meal ticket..and it will only get worse if it isn't stopped..
Well sweety it isnt up to you to stop it and yes my hubby does work his butt off to support us so yes i do have it handed to me but im also a stay at home mum too so there is a diffrence as well......just be careful with this girl u never know if she is crazy and you really seem stressed out u dont need to stress maybe talk with your soon to be hubby about taking this so called guy friend out to lunch and have a chat with him about how u feel about this girl if your really this head set on it ya know maybe if u tell him the same things u tell us he might understand and see more clearly.......or maybe he really likes handing her things and he likes her if thats so and he tells you that how will you feel then?"more hurt then u are now?"im sure of it dear.....just becareful
Well sweety it isnt up to you to stop it and yes my hubby does work his butt off to support us so yes i do have it handed to me but im also a stay at home mum too so there is a diffrence as well......just be careful with this girl u never know if she is crazy and you really seem stressed out u dont need to stress maybe talk with your soon to be hubby about taking this so called guy friend out to lunch and have a chat with him about how u feel about this girl if your really this head set on it ya know maybe if u tell him the same things u tell us he might understand and see more clearly.......or maybe he really likes handing her things and he likes her if thats so and he tells you that how will you feel then?"more hurt then u are now?"im sure of it dear.....just becareful
Lotus_Blossom
02-11-2006, 10:00 AM
Hopey,
You don't have anything handed to you..you are a homemaker,a housewife that in itself is a job even though it is in the home..you aren't just around doing nothing using your Husband..it is a give and take relationship/marriage the both of you work together as one to take care of your Family..this Gal has never done anything but go to School part time and laze about the rest..on her breaks when she didn't have anything to do she didn't go see him..she doesn't want to spend time with or be with him..she wasn't taught the way we were to work and make something of herself..my gosh she didn't even want him the first time she met him but when the money,gifts and goods started flowing in she sat back and gladly took and hasn't given anything in return..the more given to her she will continue taking..he is her way to getting what she wants and that is it..she is a very selfish,greedy and self centered individual..oh she is crazy alright crazy enough to fake or do things out of spite to continue having things handed to her..he told me he regrets everything..he doesn't want to be with her..it is a complicated matter for every party involved except his controlling Sister..she is the only one getting what it is she wants regardless how it makes her Brother feel..
You don't have anything handed to you..you are a homemaker,a housewife that in itself is a job even though it is in the home..you aren't just around doing nothing using your Husband..it is a give and take relationship/marriage the both of you work together as one to take care of your Family..this Gal has never done anything but go to School part time and laze about the rest..on her breaks when she didn't have anything to do she didn't go see him..she doesn't want to spend time with or be with him..she wasn't taught the way we were to work and make something of herself..my gosh she didn't even want him the first time she met him but when the money,gifts and goods started flowing in she sat back and gladly took and hasn't given anything in return..the more given to her she will continue taking..he is her way to getting what she wants and that is it..she is a very selfish,greedy and self centered individual..oh she is crazy alright crazy enough to fake or do things out of spite to continue having things handed to her..he told me he regrets everything..he doesn't want to be with her..it is a complicated matter for every party involved except his controlling Sister..she is the only one getting what it is she wants regardless how it makes her Brother feel..
Hopey_81
02-11-2006, 05:14 PM
ok so the thing to do is have a talk with him like i said before and if he wants to be with her knowing the kind of person she is then so be it.It is his choice his life maybe he likes the way it is ........and it isnt your concern you can care but it isnt your life its theres and if he wants to be miserable then so be it you shouldnt stress yourself out at all over something so silly like you said you have a new life a new love and "Your Happy"thats all that should matter dont bother yourself with unnecesary drama and stress.....so have that talk with him tell him how you feel about this girl as a "freind" and if he wants to be with someone like that then let him learn his lesson on his own.cheers xxx