sayuri_desu
02-13-2006, 04:54 AM
hello everyone and thanks for taking the time to read this. i know what i did was stupid, so no need to restate that please. i need advice, that is what i am here for. i know what can be happening is also mental bc the mind can play tricks on you and make you believe you have symptoms that really don't mean anything, but anyways, so here it goes...
this past wednesday i had unprotected oral with a girl, i am a girl too...she seemed fine, down there no smelly discharge. and i was fine afterwards. on saturday i ate chinese food and ate some crispy noodles. afterwards the roof of my mouth felt wierd, and a little bit on the opposite side on my tongue. i have NO blisters, no fever, it doesn't hurt at all, nothing. it just feels weird, along with my mind taking things overboard. i just think i might have hurt myself eating the chips, and then i went to eat some acidic stuff...i know nothing is 100% sure. but now i am just worried. i haven't told her anything, she has a boyfriend, and i have just been asking her random questions just to see what type of sexual activity she has had before. she said her bf always goes down on her, in a way releives me because maybe she doesn't have anything, if her bf is still going down on her. she also said 4 months ago she had done something else with a girl. i want to talk to her to see if she has gotten tested. i just don't want to ask her on the phone, today i was supposed to meet her to eat dinner, but got out of work late, so hopefully tomorrow, i am hoping to meet her. how can i ask her in a good and friendly manner? how long do i have to wait to get tested? can i get tested now? it's been 5 days now, is it too early? i think i'm really taking it over board and just thinking the worst right now. i need any advice please.
this past wednesday i had unprotected oral with a girl, i am a girl too...she seemed fine, down there no smelly discharge. and i was fine afterwards. on saturday i ate chinese food and ate some crispy noodles. afterwards the roof of my mouth felt wierd, and a little bit on the opposite side on my tongue. i have NO blisters, no fever, it doesn't hurt at all, nothing. it just feels weird, along with my mind taking things overboard. i just think i might have hurt myself eating the chips, and then i went to eat some acidic stuff...i know nothing is 100% sure. but now i am just worried. i haven't told her anything, she has a boyfriend, and i have just been asking her random questions just to see what type of sexual activity she has had before. she said her bf always goes down on her, in a way releives me because maybe she doesn't have anything, if her bf is still going down on her. she also said 4 months ago she had done something else with a girl. i want to talk to her to see if she has gotten tested. i just don't want to ask her on the phone, today i was supposed to meet her to eat dinner, but got out of work late, so hopefully tomorrow, i am hoping to meet her. how can i ask her in a good and friendly manner? how long do i have to wait to get tested? can i get tested now? it's been 5 days now, is it too early? i think i'm really taking it over board and just thinking the worst right now. i need any advice please.
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DesperationGirl
02-13-2006, 08:10 AM
Being heftily bisexual myself, I have to say that it just sounds like you're having an odd reaction to the asian food. Don't worry about it!
sayuri_desu
02-13-2006, 01:25 PM
thanks for replying, but that doesn't really help me much...
but i do think it was just that i scraped the top of my mouth and the opposite side on my tongue with the crispy noodles. when i wake up i'm fine, but once i start eating, and well the food has to pass thru there, it starts feeling weird again...but like i said, it doesn't hurt, it just feels wierd, not tingly either, just wierd. and then i just keep on messing with the top of my mouth with my tongue, i have checked so many times, and my tongue looks normal, nothing on it. but i can't see up on the roof of my mouth to see if there's anything... either way i want to know when i can get tested and if it's too early...anybody???? :confused:
but i do think it was just that i scraped the top of my mouth and the opposite side on my tongue with the crispy noodles. when i wake up i'm fine, but once i start eating, and well the food has to pass thru there, it starts feeling weird again...but like i said, it doesn't hurt, it just feels wierd, not tingly either, just wierd. and then i just keep on messing with the top of my mouth with my tongue, i have checked so many times, and my tongue looks normal, nothing on it. but i can't see up on the roof of my mouth to see if there's anything... either way i want to know when i can get tested and if it's too early...anybody???? :confused:
Magnetic
02-15-2006, 09:15 PM
You may be worrying too much and having false symptoms. Still, oral infections are possbile, which is why safe sex is urged. If the feelings continue, then you should see a doctor for possible treatment.