HandyMom
03-14-2006, 06:24 PM
Hello everyone, I came across this site while searching for symptoms of Lupus. What I have found has lead me to the conclusion it's a very real possibility for me and will be scheduling a physical to see if this is the case.
I'm a 35 year old single mom, with a paternal aunt who was diagnosed with SLE years ago. My sister also seems to have MANY of the symptoms of SLE, though she has not been diagnosed. She has had many problems with endo in the past, and lately has been dealing with digestive, eye (dye eye) and nasal ulceration issues - which I found listed as symptomatic of possible SLE. She gets hysterical when any medical things are discussed, so I'm trying to figure out how best to broach the subject with her.
As for me, I have been dealing with extreme, EXTREME fatigue for the past several days, and have noticed this is kind of a pattern with me. I have also discovered discussion on this board regarding various other complaints I hadn't thought connected before, such as intensely itchy palms, wrists and ankles/feet, low blood pressure, bluing of the fingernails/cold extremities, dizziness/moderate to severe headaches, etc.
In the past year, I have noticed an increase in, or the presence of (and I'm not trying to gorss anyone out, just looking for your input/opinions on the matter):
- episodes of EXTREME fatigue, the kind that makes you feel as if you're just going to fall down where you stand
-frequent nausea
-frequent moderate to severe headaches
-"fuzzy" thinking
-ocassional facial rash that makes the skin there feel very warm (which I had previously attributed to soap irritation, but now I'm not so sure)
-hand and foot itchiness
-ocassional dizziness/lightheadedness
-I have had swollen lymph nodes in my neck/jaw area for as long as I can remember. No doctor I have seen has ever been concerned about it.
-achiness to actual pain in knees, hips, wrists
-heavy frequent nosebleeds that seem to go in cycles (have many for a period of weeks or so, then none for months)
-increased cramping with menstrual cycles, passing of moderately-sized clots
-very cold fingers and/or toes (comes and goes, not a constant thing)
-ocassionally, my fingernails will turn purply-blue, but I do not have the dicoloration beyond this are into my fingers.
-ocassional frothy urine
-ocassional episodes of shortness of breath, usually in conjunction with the dizziness
-lately I've noticed that the hair on my arms seems much sparser than I'd remembered it being. I'm very light-skinned and blonde, so it's hard to see it anyway, but it seems to be much less than it used to be.
-very dry skin. I use a lot of moisturizers, but it doesn't seem to help.
-I have a long history of depression and anxiety...again, it may or may not be related.
_ a couple of years ago, I had some problems with PVCs and "blackout" type episodes that my GP wasn't quite sure what to make of. He did nothing for the PVCs other than an EKG which failed to pick up any, and wasn't sure what the "seizure-like" episodes were. One happened while I was driving and although I felt totally aware of myself and my surroundings, I felt myself slumping over to the side and felt unable to control my body, I just went limp. Another episode happened shortly after going to bed, and it was that same "detached" sensation as well as the sensation of not getting enough air. I could feel myself inhaling, but it was as if my lungs weren't taking the oxygen out. At the time I was taking Wellbutrin, which can lower the seizure threshhold, so I was taken off of it as a precaution. I haven't has anything like this happen since then, although I have had ocassional PVCs.
People in my family have a history of very HEAVY nosebleeds and menstrual periods, which I have seen listed in connection with Lupus, though I realize it's not indicative of the disease. I just have noticed, in reading through websites that list symptoms, that I have enough of them to warrant further evaluation. That's why I'm here, too, so I can learn more about Lupus and its treatment/management. Maybe this isn't my problem, but at this point, I can't rule it out.
Thanks in advance for any advice, guidance and support you're willing to offer me.
~Suzy
I'm a 35 year old single mom, with a paternal aunt who was diagnosed with SLE years ago. My sister also seems to have MANY of the symptoms of SLE, though she has not been diagnosed. She has had many problems with endo in the past, and lately has been dealing with digestive, eye (dye eye) and nasal ulceration issues - which I found listed as symptomatic of possible SLE. She gets hysterical when any medical things are discussed, so I'm trying to figure out how best to broach the subject with her.
As for me, I have been dealing with extreme, EXTREME fatigue for the past several days, and have noticed this is kind of a pattern with me. I have also discovered discussion on this board regarding various other complaints I hadn't thought connected before, such as intensely itchy palms, wrists and ankles/feet, low blood pressure, bluing of the fingernails/cold extremities, dizziness/moderate to severe headaches, etc.
In the past year, I have noticed an increase in, or the presence of (and I'm not trying to gorss anyone out, just looking for your input/opinions on the matter):
- episodes of EXTREME fatigue, the kind that makes you feel as if you're just going to fall down where you stand
-frequent nausea
-frequent moderate to severe headaches
-"fuzzy" thinking
-ocassional facial rash that makes the skin there feel very warm (which I had previously attributed to soap irritation, but now I'm not so sure)
-hand and foot itchiness
-ocassional dizziness/lightheadedness
-I have had swollen lymph nodes in my neck/jaw area for as long as I can remember. No doctor I have seen has ever been concerned about it.
-achiness to actual pain in knees, hips, wrists
-heavy frequent nosebleeds that seem to go in cycles (have many for a period of weeks or so, then none for months)
-increased cramping with menstrual cycles, passing of moderately-sized clots
-very cold fingers and/or toes (comes and goes, not a constant thing)
-ocassionally, my fingernails will turn purply-blue, but I do not have the dicoloration beyond this are into my fingers.
-ocassional frothy urine
-ocassional episodes of shortness of breath, usually in conjunction with the dizziness
-lately I've noticed that the hair on my arms seems much sparser than I'd remembered it being. I'm very light-skinned and blonde, so it's hard to see it anyway, but it seems to be much less than it used to be.
-very dry skin. I use a lot of moisturizers, but it doesn't seem to help.
-I have a long history of depression and anxiety...again, it may or may not be related.
_ a couple of years ago, I had some problems with PVCs and "blackout" type episodes that my GP wasn't quite sure what to make of. He did nothing for the PVCs other than an EKG which failed to pick up any, and wasn't sure what the "seizure-like" episodes were. One happened while I was driving and although I felt totally aware of myself and my surroundings, I felt myself slumping over to the side and felt unable to control my body, I just went limp. Another episode happened shortly after going to bed, and it was that same "detached" sensation as well as the sensation of not getting enough air. I could feel myself inhaling, but it was as if my lungs weren't taking the oxygen out. At the time I was taking Wellbutrin, which can lower the seizure threshhold, so I was taken off of it as a precaution. I haven't has anything like this happen since then, although I have had ocassional PVCs.
People in my family have a history of very HEAVY nosebleeds and menstrual periods, which I have seen listed in connection with Lupus, though I realize it's not indicative of the disease. I just have noticed, in reading through websites that list symptoms, that I have enough of them to warrant further evaluation. That's why I'm here, too, so I can learn more about Lupus and its treatment/management. Maybe this isn't my problem, but at this point, I can't rule it out.
Thanks in advance for any advice, guidance and support you're willing to offer me.
~Suzy

