lol, Not a guy, but heres my insight. You may not mean to, but you sound kind of clingy, and I am not saying that to offend you in anyway. It has been my experience, that most men want to be the aggressers and they really don't like being chased. Maybe you should cut back just a little on the emails and contacting him, and start making him miss you and be the one to initiate the connact? Making him a tad more unsure may make him a little more attentive. jmho