i have hair on my butt and around the whole, how can i get it off?

try a brazilian wax, it may hurt but it will get rid of it.
otherwise, clip using an electric clipper, or shave it (be careful) you may want to have someone help you out.

that hair is normal, we all have it, both men and women

i have alot, in my hole and on the cheeks, i cant get a way cuz i dont have that kind of oppurtunities, anyhting at home?

It's normal, though some guyes may have much more than others. I can understand not wanting all of that excess hair. What have you tried to remove it? Theres a Nair(hair removal) for men, you might try. :bouncing: I tried some on my testicles to remove the hair and it worked pretty good. If that doesn't work, theres alway your old fashion sizzers! That's what I use to keep that area nice and trimmed. Use the small ones you get at the salon though.. Good luck!

You don't want to try nair on a mucous membrane, such as your anus.
It would burn the skin horribly.

Tommy's right, Nair may burn you and it says on the bottle not to use on genitals or anal areas so you would not have any rights if something went wrong. With the method below, you can shave it yourself using cheap everyday things you should be able to get anywhere.

Get a mirror large enough to stand on the floor against the wall.
lie in front of it on your back with your knees on your chest.
Cover the area with talcum (baby) powder; you can use this instead of cream and water to soften the hair and lube the blade.
Shave very carefully, watching your progress in the mirror.

Believe it or not, the powder works, I have seen it done. Good luck.

Use an electric shaver. It is quicker, more effective, and less likely to harm or hurt you. Be careful when removing any hair even with Nair which is a chemical that can burn you.

try this new stuff, the site is hilarious:

http://www.shaveeverywhere.com