So he's my deal. My fiance and I have been together for about 2 years and getting married in 07. When we first started seeing each other before we even started getting intimate he told me that he had contracted herpes from a past girlfriend. He went on to tell me that he had passed it on to two of his other girlfriends after that because he did not know he had it until a huge out break. I have been fine up until now...I am a female and we are very busy in our lives. We very rarely have sex and when we do he makes sure that he has no signs of the virus. We had sex last about 3 weeks ago at which time I shaved everything off "down there" So then about a week ago I was grooming again for a romantic night and again shaved. We never ended up having sex because I ended up getting my period. So yesterday while in the shower I noticed that I had two red bumps that looked as though they were ingrown hairs...If you are a women than you will know that when it starts growing back down there sometimes you get ingrowns...But anyways today they look a little bigger...They hurt a little and are a little itchy but itchy is normal when hair grows back...I'm starting to freak out that I may have contracted the virus...It's saturday and now I have to wait until Monday to call the Dr.......But then I think that it may not be herpes HOW DID YOU KNOW you had contracted it??????

So nervous and sick to my stomach right now....Poor fiance feels horrible

Also he HAS been tested and the test results are inconclusive...they can't say yes it is or no it isn't anyone heard of this before?

Do you have swollen lymph nodes or any fever-like symptoms?

Nope no fever no anything...I have cramps but I also have my period...