I was with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, I found I had PCOS before we ever tried sex, but ever since the first time, it was painful. (I was also put straight onto the pill to regulate periods and as a contraceptive) We tried lube but still painful, it was painful as it entered, and when it went deeper inside it felt as if it was hitting something. Even on my own, when i put my finger inside me, it hurts, and there is no sexual pleasurable feeling there what so ever! I have always got pleasure from just clitoral stimulation.
I have just discovered also that Im bisexual and had my first sexual experience with another girl a few nights back, but it was still painful with her fingers, although I was very wet and it annoys me so much that I cant feel the same pleasure as her.

Is all of this pain down to PCOS?? I have been waiting over 2 years now to find out from my gynachologist, had scans but still no results and i just want a healthy sex life!! me and my boyf split up, and obviously it didnt bother me for a while, but now im starting sexual relationships again its getting me down!!

Please if anyone has any advice, im open to it! thank you! x