Hello everyone, as my name suggests, I did something stupid and have been overcome by fear of HIV and guilt.

Exactly 3 weeks back, I went to a massage parlor, got a table shower, massage, no worry with that. However, at the end of the massage, I asked for a handjob (trying to be cautious). The woman got a bit enthusiastic and licked the shaft of my penis and my balls and the area below. She did not actually suck the head of the penis, just licked (with saliva) the shaft and the balls, etc. At the end of this she gave the tip of my penis just one single lick and then proceeded with the handjob. Now I have been overcome with guilt and I am also panicking about being infected with HIV.

My questions are:

1. Is it possible to be infected with HIV this way? I am not sure, but could any of her saliva enter through my urethra and infect me? It was a small lick, hardly much saliva and within 30 seconds she used her hand for the handjob. What are the chances?

2. Any risk from licking my balls? I don't think so, but what if I have microscopic cuts or abrasions? Can the salive enter my bloodstream through those?

3. Risk of any other STD's?

4. Should I test for HIV in 3 months?

Please help, going nuts right now.

Thanks, Dave.

Saliva doesn't contain HIV; therefore, your encounter contained no risk of HIV. What STDs could you have been exposed to? Maybe herpes, but I'm not 100% sure. You might want to check the herpes board, though.

But, HIV, shouldn't be a concern (from this experience).

100% no chance of contracting hiv that time- guaranteed. Test to your heart's content and exhaust your bank account. Your hiv status did not change by the encounter you describe.

Honestly test only for peace of mind .
The act in which you have described WASN'T a risky encounter .
...... Lost Spirit ........