i was with a guy for 3yrs and found out a year later he had HIV. im not with him anymore. i was tested and im ok.
i was just put on the SPOT tonigh from a person that lives nextdoor from me!:mad:
she said my nephew and his freaking WIFE told her and her hubby that my X has AIDS! i felt like i was killed over and over again when she said that! i played it off . i said he had something wrong with him and he was tested but everything was ok.
i just dont feel right RIGHT now. :blob_fire
i called my nephew and yelled at him and i said i wanted to talk to his WIFE:mad: he hung up!!!
i was always afraid others would find out about this and NOW i feel freaking DEAD because i was confronted about it by a NEIGBHOR that my NEPHEW and his freaking WIFE talk to! i called people crying my eyes out but now i feel like my life is ,.......i dont know!!!
HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP

now i feel like i need my X but hes gone! no idea where he is! and i miss him!
i really feel like a jerk because i can not stop crying!

I don't understand your problem - I'm not being flippant or nasty - I just really don't.
He was your ex - you didn't want him when he was just that but now because someone has told someone else he has AIDS you are upset.

What is the issue here ?
You wanted him back anyway but now others know he is +ve you don't feel you can ?

Just tell your neighbours that you don't have it if you need to - but to be honest I'd tell them to mind there own business.

You need to try and understand why you are upset yourself before you can explain it to anyone else .....

i was very upset when i wrote that....

i had this girl come up to me and she told me that my nephew and his wife told her that my X has AIDS. he does have HIV and i dont. i was with him for 3yrs but we broke up. i tried to get the hIV thing out of my mind and i was ok for a while until this girl mentioned it to me. i was put on the spot :mad: . i told her he had a scare and that was it. im mad because someone eles found out about it and now i think everyone thinks i have it! all because of my nephew and his wife BIG MOUTH. has anyone on here ever been put on the spot like that and if so how did ya feel?


i hope u can understand this because im rushing. gotta go to work.

thanks!;)

It sounds as though you have had issues with your nephew and his wife before. I have to agee: your ex is your ex and, unless you want to be back with him, he will continue to be your ex.

Do you think that somehow these people suspect that since he has HIV that, since you two were an item, that you also have HIV? Are you feeling guilty because he has HIV and you don't? Do want him in your life despite the HIV issue?

I would just lay it on the line that this is a part of your life (which is past) that you choose not to discuss and that, if they continue to spread the rumor, you will simply not have anything to do with them.

This is not your issue but the issue of your stupid nephew and his stupid wife. chris