i need help you guys! my husband and i are finally getting some alone time together to visit florida, any person without an ed would be thrilled , but because of this stupid problem, i am fearful. my husband is of no help because he does not understand. he just keeps telling me to eat because he says i look way too thin, i was 20 lbs heavier when we started dating 12 yrs. ago. he says the vacation will be no fun if all i do is obsess about what i eat, if their is exercise equipment where we stay, etc. i need to enjoy this vacation for us as a couple, but i am so scared. i have worked so hard to be this weight, even tho everyone tells me basically how sick i look, i like it! but i hate starving myself. i just know when we go all the food, drinks, treats, etc will make me miserable. what can i do to feel better? please help i leave in 3 days!!

That's really traumatic, I hate traveling! I think lots of hotels have fitness rooms now, or at least a pool? It's kind of hot to be jogging in Florida :( The food is tough. Pretty much every restaurant has gotten enough of a clue to offer lower fat, lower calorie stuff, but it's hard to trust. I generally get a grilled chicken salad or chicken breast with wild rice, since those are foods I 'know' and can be relatively ok with. Try and have some fun and indulge in at least one special thing a day, ok? Even if it's not food, just a little bit of relaxation is good!