Hi,

I have a sister that is 19yrs old (im 20) she is very thin, pretty and smart. However, she never seems to eat. She is very fussy with her food and will only eat grilled chicken or a small bit of pasta with tomato based sauce ectra. for diner breakfast/lunch dont exist. She sometimes binge eats junk food but then wont have anything else for the rest of the day.

The only reason I am worried is her hair has started to thin-out quite a bit and I have realised a little bit of hair on the side of her face, I am aware these are signs of an eating disorder. A few years back her hair began to thin and the hairdresser realised and mentioned it to the family but that brought up alot of arguments when my parents insisted she see a doctor to find out why, she is very stubborn.

I am a little concerned as it has begun to come back a bit and I just wanted some advice.

How should I deal with this, we are close and I dont want to upset her?

Any coments would be appriciated.

Thanks :)

i think i would bring the issue up. It's bound to start arguments, but this is your sister's health that we're talking about. I would also look into therapists/nutritionists in your area that are trained in eating disorders. Maybe if your family had something to present to her?

Best of luck. :-)

Hey Adam08-

First let me say that your sister is blessed to have a brother that is so concerned and loving. I think you should definately bring up your concerns to her. Eating disorders are deadly and once you have one you can't just get rid of it. If your sister does have an eating disorder she will need professional help and lots of love/support. Don't let the thought of her getting mad at you stop you from confronting her, you might be saving her life.

God Bless You:angel:
MANNO

Also, she may not think she has an eating disorder even if she does. Denial is strong in people with an ED. Lovingly telling her what you see might help her to see it as well. I'll say a prayer for you guys. Good Luck.