it looks like to me that birth control pills are the same thing as the female hormone pills would it make a man have a more feminine shape to his body and grow breasts?

Hmmm, well I really have no idea. I don't think the estrogen would be high enough, but if you have researched the hormones levels in what you would normally take to have feminine features and it looks like it's the same levels in birth control pills, I suppose it couldn't hurt. I wish I could be more of a help.
Good luck. :)