NOW MY WIFE BETTER YET I WILL GIVE YOU HER WORDS TO ME WORD FOR WORD LISTEN TO THIS (OH AND IF YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON GO READ THE WORST EPISODE YET) "i KNOW WE'RE GOING THROUGH A RUFF PATCH RIGHT NOW. I KNOW YOU WANT TO TALK AND I DO TO BUT I nEED SOME TIME SO I WON'T OVERREACT AND DO OR SAY SOMETHING I REGRET. aLLOW ME TO PROCESS THINGS AND THEN WE WILL BE ABLE TO EXPRESS OURSELVES SUCCESSFULLY." (DIRECT QUOTE FROM MY WIFE'S EMAIL) I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY I CAN'T TALK ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED I MEAN I REALLY DON'T TRUST HER RIGHT NOW SHE PULLED A KNIFE ON ME AND I DON'T EVEN SLEEP IN THE SAME ROOM AS HER RIGHT NOW AND I WON'T UNTILL WE CAN TALK SHE JUST THINKS THAT IF WE LET IT GO THEN IT WILL DISAPPEAR AND I CAN'T DO THAT. WHY IS IT THAT I CAN'T TALK WHEN I WANT? THE ONLY REASON I AM SO UPSET IS B/C OF THE SEVERITY OF WHAT HAPPENED AND HOW MUCH WAS DEALT TO ME AND I CAN'T TALK.

Hi again. I don't blame you for your reaction. I don't know how you get any sleep at all. I have taken your wife's approch before and sometimes that is good advise, yet I did'nt pull a knife on someone. You have a right to not have to worry about your very life everyday till she decides she is ready to talk. Has she done anything.... to keep this from happening again since it happened? I'd insist if she has'nt. If she has acknowledge it and watch closely to see how it is working. I wish you luck. TEXASCRITTER