Around May 24th of this year, I was in China with school (hangzhou).

I got really drunk and went with some friends to one of those massage parlors. I couldn't get an erection because I had so much alcohol in my system, so I started to finger the girl to see if that would help me get an erection.

After fingering her for a while, I looked at my fingers and saw that they had blood on them. I wiped most the blood off on a towel, and then I tried to masturbate myself, and still couldn't get it up.

Now I am scared beyond belief. About 7-8 weeks after that experience I had a cold with a fever that lasted about one day. Just about 3 days ago, I noticed my lymph nodes in my neck swollen.

Should I get tested? Is it too soon to get tested?

Hey,

I'm no expert, but I hope that I can help you a little until other people reply to you. I went for a test a couple of days ago, and my doctor said that generally speaking you have to wait until atleast 3 months after the incident to get a definite result, you can get tested before then, but at that point nothing is set in stone.

If you're feeling worried (which you obviously are!) the best thing I can suggest is that you see a doctor, discuss things with them, and arrange a test for whenever possible. People on this board may have a lot of knowledge and personal experience, but surely it doesn't compare to sitting down and talking about it face to face with a professional who deals with things like this every day.

I really think it will make you feel a lot better.

Take care.

I sucked it up and finally got the test today. SHould get the results by the end of the week... this is gonna be a long week...

Lol, oh man... I'm right there with you. I should get mine some time within the next 2 weeks... 3 at the very most... it's good to know that they specialise in 'vague', ha.

Good luck to you, I hope everything comes back fine.

does my situation seem bad? i'm starting to not be able to sleep now that the day is almost here

It doesn't sound like a high risk encounter to me, but as I said before, I'm no expert.

Why didn't you ask your doctor questions like this when you went for the test?

Aced the test :)

Thanks bubba for the support

AWESOME! That's really great, though I must admit I hate that you've gotten your results so quickly and mine is going to take weeks, lol.

Once again, that's wonderful and I'm glad you're well.

Take care of yourself.