Hi everyone, it has been a while since we lasted posted. We are starting our 3rd IVF process now, with an egg donor. My Wife has started her Lupron injectionslast week and the donor is/ will be doing her's soon. The scheduled transfer is for around Nov 13. I hope all goes well this time around.

I also need some help about my wife. In the past she was always negative about the transfers and now she is staying positive (she has bee reading a book written by Joel Osteen) So when we talk, she says when the baby comes, when I get pregnant, the baby's room will look like this, etc.. I have no problem with that, I just don't want her to be heartbroken if it fails. I am praying each day that everything turns out sucessful. And I ask if you could through some our way.

Thank you all

Hi Mike!:wave:
On my 3rd IVF attempt, I got pg. They say that 3rd time's the charm, so good luck!!:angel: As far as your wife being positive, I think that is awesome.:) It's really the only way to be. It will help her to be less stressed and that will probably help her to respond to implanting and carrying that baby. I don't think you need to remind her of the disappointment involved if it doesn't work. After more than one bfn from ivf, that heartbreak is all too real for her (as it was for me too) and I'm sure, it is lurking there in the back of her mind. Keep her positive and join in the "when the baby comes..." conversations. It will excite you both and give you faith. Keep us posted!!