MaxTech23
10-27-2006, 10:34 AM
Well ladies, as far as HPT's are concerned, it's a negative. I'll wait for the beta on Monday for it to be official but I'm starting to get some bad cramps, like AF is coming. I guess it was too good to be true.:mad: I think this will be a long journey for us and the one thing I need to learn, is patience!! So, we'll take a month off to relax, breathe, have sex for just pleasure :D , maybe a hard stiff drink for me and when that month is up I'll jump back on the wagon and start our adventures in the IF battle again. :rolleyes: All the while, hoping and praying :angel: that it won't take too long.
ibelieve, I'm sorry that this wasn't your month. Keep your head up, your time is coming.
I'm hoping that maybe I will get pregnant by Christmas. Wouldn't that be a fabulous gift for me and DH. ;)
:angel: STICKY BABY DUST to anyone still in the 2ww. :angel:
TryN2BMommy
10-27-2006, 10:46 AM
My heart goes out to you, Maxtech. I'm so disappointed for you. Go and have that stiff drink and enjoy your time off. It may be what your body needs...some rest and relaxation from all of this stress. You so deserve it.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry this wasn't your month.
((HUGS))
Holly~
ledfoot
10-27-2006, 01:49 PM
Very sorry you had a neg, its so awful to have such high hopes and then have them crushed. I hope you can be pregnant by christmas.:angel:
SPIDERLAMPP30
10-27-2006, 01:53 PM
((hugs))
I am so sorry, take it easy. Do something special for yourself, IF isnt easy and my heart goes out to you!
Pennie:angel:
heathermoe
10-27-2006, 01:56 PM
Holly - Don't lose hope yet! I thought for sure AF was coming because I had bad cramps. It may still be too early for a positive.
I'm thinking of you!
TryN2BMommy
10-27-2006, 02:41 PM
Oops, not me with the negative HPT. That was Maxtech.
I'm waiting on surgery before we can officially start trying again...
MaxTech23
10-27-2006, 04:56 PM
Thank you so much. Pains are getting worse. no spotting yet of any kind and I'm trying desperately to think positively. I'm trying to hang in there until Monday. But in the back of my head I'm thinking... I had no implantation bleeding or anything. No symptoms at all but again, not everyone has symptoms do they. Either way... for all of you who did get your BFP I'm so VERY happy for you and your family. May you all enjoy it to the fullest!! Here's hoping that the rest of us will soon know what it feels like. *smile* I cried this morning when I first saw the BFN but no more tears... I have to toughen up and get over it... Things could be so much worse. Some of you women have been trying for years. We've been trying for only 2.5 yrs. 1 on our own. 1 yr with my GYN and about 6 months with my RE. So we are still basically in the beginning. I have high hopes... they aren't going anywhere!! =)
Erica
Heyknack
10-27-2006, 09:43 PM
Erica--Doesn't matter how long you've been trying, it doesn't make it any easier when you have tried month after month and always BFN's. Especially when you've been on meds or injections or gone through a procedure and get your hopes up even more (and have money invested right?). My heart goes out to you and I'll be thinking of you on Monday.
ibelieve
10-28-2006, 02:37 AM
I'm sorry. But I am glad you have high hopes and aren't giving up. Your attitude is great. Thanks for inspiring me.
believe :angel: