sjj100
11-03-2006, 09:03 AM
hello, feeling very low at the moment and was hoping for some advise.
my pregnancy test is still reading faint positive, i was told by hospital that i was having a miscarage on tuesday at 7wk1d but may have to go back for dc if my test says the same next week.
this is my second miscarage 1 yr apart at 6wk4d. why is this happening?
i have one child of 7yr, so they think i should'nt have anything wrong, but we have been trying for 3 yr and this keeps happening.
i ve asked if there is any tests they can do to find out why this has happened, but they dont with only 2 miscarages.
really worried now, will this happen each time i fall pregnant?
could some thing be wrong?
my pregnancy test is still reading faint positive, i was told by hospital that i was having a miscarage on tuesday at 7wk1d but may have to go back for dc if my test says the same next week.
this is my second miscarage 1 yr apart at 6wk4d. why is this happening?
i have one child of 7yr, so they think i should'nt have anything wrong, but we have been trying for 3 yr and this keeps happening.
i ve asked if there is any tests they can do to find out why this has happened, but they dont with only 2 miscarages.
really worried now, will this happen each time i fall pregnant?
could some thing be wrong?
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blue_eyed_girl
11-03-2006, 10:18 AM
So sorry to hear about that. Miscarriages are the bodies natural way of releasing an unhealthy baby. The reason for most miscarriages is unknown. I am not an expert, but I have read that most doctors won't test for problems until you have had at least three.
I hope everything works out for you.
I hope everything works out for you.
dizzygirl
11-03-2006, 10:25 AM
Sjj100, I am so sorry about your losses. I don't have any advice about where to go form here as far as why, or what you can do, but I would see a RE anyway, it wouldn't hurt. I can't imagine how you feel right now, but there is so much great support on this board, so please KIT.:angel:
neshee
11-03-2006, 10:40 AM
Just keep praying. As hard as that seems at times, God is with you and will see you through this. I am sorry to hear about your loss. I agree with Blue in that it is the bodies way of responding to an unhealthy baby. Good luck, and I will pray for you too. :angel:
megss
11-03-2006, 12:31 PM
I am sorry for your losses as well. I agree though, miscarraiges are usually because something was wrong with the baby (chromosonally)...not you. I too had a miscarraige and it is very hurtful. Just keep trying! It will happen!
Love and Hugs,
Megan
Love and Hugs,
Megan
GoldenMom
11-03-2006, 12:37 PM
<<Hugs>> I am sorry to hear about your losses. I cannot imagine how you are feeling.
I would definitely visit a Reproductive Endocrinologist. Having two is usually not a sign of a major problem, but the fact that you have bee trying for three years and had two miscarriages is a sign that you should seek the help of a specialist.
Low progesterone is often the cause of early miscarriages and a RE will have that among other things checked.
Best wishes to you.
I would definitely visit a Reproductive Endocrinologist. Having two is usually not a sign of a major problem, but the fact that you have bee trying for three years and had two miscarriages is a sign that you should seek the help of a specialist.
Low progesterone is often the cause of early miscarriages and a RE will have that among other things checked.
Best wishes to you.
sjj100
11-04-2006, 06:37 AM
Thanks for everyone's advice, the support is much appreciated :)
Sweet73
11-04-2006, 01:15 PM
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, I too had a m/c at 8wks back in July, I found a lot of support on the miscarriage board.
Even though this is a 2nd m/c, if you insist on testing, you will get it. I know I would. I had a D&C with my first m/c & I specifically asked the Dr to do testing on what he takes out... they normally only check to make sure it was fetal tissue, but I wanted them to check for chromosonal problems too & they did. It turns out I just had a normal miss, the Dr said that is common. If you want to have testing done, then I would speak up about it.
I am sorry you are going through this.. take care.
((HUGS))
-Sweet
Even though this is a 2nd m/c, if you insist on testing, you will get it. I know I would. I had a D&C with my first m/c & I specifically asked the Dr to do testing on what he takes out... they normally only check to make sure it was fetal tissue, but I wanted them to check for chromosonal problems too & they did. It turns out I just had a normal miss, the Dr said that is common. If you want to have testing done, then I would speak up about it.
I am sorry you are going through this.. take care.
((HUGS))
-Sweet