hey all,

iv always been obessessed with diets, weight and calories ever since i lost 3stone about 3 years ago. last year at uni i gained some wieght and went up to 10stone n lost it this summer, i am at a healy weight of 9stone 10lbs but am still highly obessessed. im always on a diet and dnt eat more than 1200calories a day! i get really stressed when some one wnts to go for a meal out or have drinks, iv stopped drinkin alochol in fear of gaining the weight, i lost this summer back. i mean im not underweight but i am terrifeid of gaining weight so much it has had really negative effects on my life, my boyfriend seems to be losing interest in me, my friends say that im no longer my happy, crazy slef they all loved, they all say im obessessed with my wieght adn that its stupid and pointless.

wat i wanted to ask was should i be concerned with what is happening, am i becoming to obessesed am in danger of an eating disorder, how can i stop obessessing so much, i try and let go and chill out but then binge eat so much that i then do a stricked diet for the following week refusing to socialise. can someone pls give me any advice thanks

helz x x x x x x

Any behavior that has a negative effect on your life is something you should be concerned about. I don't think you need to lable yourself with an eating disorder, but I would sugguest talking to a professional about why you revolve your entire world around food and weight. Because it really isn't the food or weight that has you so wound up, it is something other than fear that propels you to obess about your weight.