If you refer to my other post, there was this girl that I liked. Long story short, she likes some other guy. Funny thing is last night I had a dream about her with some other guy I didnt know, and before that I kind of had a feeling she didnt like me at all. Oh well. I give up.

But should I still get her a Christmas gift? Its more of a "thank you" give because about 3 weeks ago I was in a car crash and it screwed up my hands and out of all the people I knew only 4 of them took the time to ask me how I was doing and she was one of them. 6 abrasions on my right hand, 2 on my left, along with two swollen fingers. Hurt everytime water got on them, and everytime I tried to move them because the abrasions were on the knuckles:blob_fire

Or should I just drop it and let her be?

Hey, it's up to you. There is never anything wrong with wanting to thank somebody and do something nice for them. Just as long as it's only because you genuinely want to thank her, and not because you expect anything in return.

I personally would not give her a gift. While asking about your hand is very nice of her, I dont think it justifies buying her a gift. You already know she doesnt like you so buying her a gift will just show her you like her and makes things awkward.

Now that I think of it, I have never heard of someone getting a gift because they asked about how someone was doing. I think the main reason is because you like her. Even if she did like you, shes into another guy right now so getting a gift would just complicate things. Wait to make a move until after she gets over this other guy.

Hope this helps.

In my experience whenever I gave person a gift to thank them even if it is Christmas, Hanukkah or there birthday they always felt obligated to give me gift as well. If person short of money it became a burden not a pleasure.

Don't get her a gift.

a card should suffice...

A card is the most I would ever do.

get her a card, that is if you're getting everyone else one.

okay thank you.

i've decided not to get her anything.

Good choice

You can always make your move on her later so its not a big deal.

heh

she already likes someone else so i give up. seems like every girl already likes some other guy :/

Yea thats how it usually goes. I have that problem as well. All girls at my university seem to have a bf.

They seem to go after the jerks i guess. Thats what i'll try tomorrow, be a jerk. I'll see how people react when I start pushing them around, kind of like a bully I guess.

Nice guys really do finish last I guess :(

Time to turn to a new leaf...

I hate to admit it but most of the time nice guys do finish last.

If you refer to my other post, there was this girl that I liked. Long story short, she likes some other guy. Funny thing is last night I had a dream about her with some other guy I didnt know, and before that I kind of had a feeling she didnt like me at all. Oh well. I give up.

But should I still get her a Christmas gift? Its more of a "thank you" give because about 3 weeks ago I was in a car crash and it screwed up my hands and out of all the people I knew only 4 of them took the time to ask me how I was doing and she was one of them. 6 abrasions on my right hand, 2 on my left, along with two swollen fingers. Hurt everytime water got on them, and everytime I tried to move them because the abrasions were on the knuckles:blob_fire

Or should I just drop it and let her be?
i think that you should just leave it be because you guys are not in a serious relationship or you could just get her a small inexpensive (not cheap) gift like something that says happy holidays its up to you good luck with your decision by the way i hope you are feeling better