scotm94
12-14-2006, 05:25 AM
i dont know if this is the right web site for this but here i go
if you liked someone but they liked someone else what do you do i mean sure you can ask them out and feel then pain of rejection and
that doesnt feel good trust me from past experians so i like this girl right,but she
already has a boy friend but i figured i should give it a shot and guess what....yep you guessed it she sayed no and it hurt so bad i barley talked for 3 days and i havnt asked anyone
else out since and i probly never will because im scared they will reject me
and if i get rejected again i probly will never ask a nother person out ever again.its hard to ask someone out knowing well that you dont have a chance so heres some advise dont ask them
out because they are most likley to eat you up and spit u bak out.ive got another girl i really like and well she is already hooked up and she is my friend and all but she sent me this web site with lots of sad
video about relation ships and stuff like dat and i want to ask her out sooo bad but i just cant im afraid shes gonna say no and to make things worse her boy friend knows i like her and well to top it off i get really nevus really fast and my face
goes all red and i blow my cover and well.......what should i do:confused:
if you liked someone but they liked someone else what do you do i mean sure you can ask them out and feel then pain of rejection and
that doesnt feel good trust me from past experians so i like this girl right,but she
already has a boy friend but i figured i should give it a shot and guess what....yep you guessed it she sayed no and it hurt so bad i barley talked for 3 days and i havnt asked anyone
else out since and i probly never will because im scared they will reject me
and if i get rejected again i probly will never ask a nother person out ever again.its hard to ask someone out knowing well that you dont have a chance so heres some advise dont ask them
out because they are most likley to eat you up and spit u bak out.ive got another girl i really like and well she is already hooked up and she is my friend and all but she sent me this web site with lots of sad
video about relation ships and stuff like dat and i want to ask her out sooo bad but i just cant im afraid shes gonna say no and to make things worse her boy friend knows i like her and well to top it off i get really nevus really fast and my face
goes all red and i blow my cover and well.......what should i do:confused:
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scotm94
12-14-2006, 05:35 AM
please someone reply im desprate
Megan :D
12-14-2006, 07:36 AM
Scot, dont be so negative!!
Theres someone out there for everyone, and the harder you look and the more you panic about it the less likely you are to find her. She'll come to you!! (yipee for chiches!!) Everyone gets rejected- its character building, dont take it to heart. How would you feel if a girl said yes to you when she didnt really like you, and went out with you so as not to upset you? Wouldnt you rather have someone that likes you back?
If this other girl is already hooked up, dont disrupt her relationship. it isnt fair. Wait and see what happens with it. Chill out about it, and dont be so down!! Dont worry about the blushing, you'll find that most girls think its cute!!
Um, good luck with watever you decide...
Megan xxxx:bouncing:
Theres someone out there for everyone, and the harder you look and the more you panic about it the less likely you are to find her. She'll come to you!! (yipee for chiches!!) Everyone gets rejected- its character building, dont take it to heart. How would you feel if a girl said yes to you when she didnt really like you, and went out with you so as not to upset you? Wouldnt you rather have someone that likes you back?
If this other girl is already hooked up, dont disrupt her relationship. it isnt fair. Wait and see what happens with it. Chill out about it, and dont be so down!! Dont worry about the blushing, you'll find that most girls think its cute!!
Um, good luck with watever you decide...
Megan xxxx:bouncing:
adamace1
12-14-2006, 02:53 PM
Ummm You need to look for single girls.
Megan :D
12-15-2006, 01:43 PM
Lol, yeah, that would help
:bouncing:
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Associate
12-15-2006, 11:24 PM
In any relationship, there must be a 'click'. All the while, your eyes seem to be roving at girls that are already committed, attached or already in a relationship.
Just a question...no offense to you or any other...are you a sagittarius???
Maybe what you should do is to go and join some groups or activities and while you are there, show your potential as a prospective partner and that may draw some interesting girls...
I had the same experience too....many years ago....it always seem that other fellow's girlfriend is better looking and more juicy and shined (maybe because she is in love) and I tried to get her but failed terribly. Finally, I look for those unattached at extra classes and gatherings......and to boost my record...I already had at least 8 girls since then.
:angel:
Just a question...no offense to you or any other...are you a sagittarius???
Maybe what you should do is to go and join some groups or activities and while you are there, show your potential as a prospective partner and that may draw some interesting girls...
I had the same experience too....many years ago....it always seem that other fellow's girlfriend is better looking and more juicy and shined (maybe because she is in love) and I tried to get her but failed terribly. Finally, I look for those unattached at extra classes and gatherings......and to boost my record...I already had at least 8 girls since then.
:angel:
elmgoodie'
12-18-2006, 04:52 AM
So yeah, commitment usually means the person is COMMITED which means that approaching her in the first place probably wasn't the smartest move.
Regarding the rejection, obviously that's the number one fear for anybody who wants to hit on a girl/guy. However, the more you get rejected the more you realise that it really isn't a big deal. She could reject you for so many reason, and if the specific girl you're referring to is in a current relationship, her rejecting you is almost a gurantee and most likely has nothing to do with you..
Also, push comes to shove, I would rather have her spit in my face then fake being interested.
Regarding the rejection, obviously that's the number one fear for anybody who wants to hit on a girl/guy. However, the more you get rejected the more you realise that it really isn't a big deal. She could reject you for so many reason, and if the specific girl you're referring to is in a current relationship, her rejecting you is almost a gurantee and most likely has nothing to do with you..
Also, push comes to shove, I would rather have her spit in my face then fake being interested.
huffnpuff
12-18-2006, 02:31 PM
I think your friends' girlfriends or girls who are committed to someone else look good to you because they are not available. You know this, and are probably comfortable with them because they are, but sincerely, it's not a good idea to set yourself up for disappointment, because if they like/love the person they're with, you are going to fail. Definitely look around and check out the shy girl, the girl who hasn't got EVERYTHING going for her, and you will find yourself a lot better off. Good luck to you and don't be down on yourself. You are just going after the wrong ones!!