southern_belle
12-17-2006, 11:43 AM
Hey y'all,
Still no af (which was due friday 12/15). I am an emotional wreck.
Still feel like she is coming any minute, but omg, I am having the worst mood swings. For example: This morning I had to drag myself out of bed, then started fussing at my fiance, then right after apologizing, started crying uncontrollably. I was able to calm down, but while trying to get ready for church, I broke down again. Needless to say, I put my pjs back on and here I sit at the computer. All he could do was tell me he would let me be for a little while. Poor soul!
I don't want to read too much into this, but i'm scared to take a hpt b/c i don't want to be disappointed. I know that my emotions are high with the obvious stress of the holidays and the unusual stress at work....:dizzy:
So, I have to go to wm later to pick up a few things. At that time I think I will pick up a hpt and a bbt, that way if the hpt is neg, I will have something to look forward to when af comes...
How is everyone else?
Still no af (which was due friday 12/15). I am an emotional wreck.
Still feel like she is coming any minute, but omg, I am having the worst mood swings. For example: This morning I had to drag myself out of bed, then started fussing at my fiance, then right after apologizing, started crying uncontrollably. I was able to calm down, but while trying to get ready for church, I broke down again. Needless to say, I put my pjs back on and here I sit at the computer. All he could do was tell me he would let me be for a little while. Poor soul!
I don't want to read too much into this, but i'm scared to take a hpt b/c i don't want to be disappointed. I know that my emotions are high with the obvious stress of the holidays and the unusual stress at work....:dizzy:
So, I have to go to wm later to pick up a few things. At that time I think I will pick up a hpt and a bbt, that way if the hpt is neg, I will have something to look forward to when af comes...
How is everyone else?
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TxsChatterbox
12-17-2006, 12:23 PM
I am so sorry you are having a rough morning. I hope that this is a good sign for you. Are you going to test? Or have you tested and in my morning glory, I missed it? Don't be so hard on yourself either, even though I'm sure it's easier said than done. *hugs*
Tami
Tami
Kiedy
12-17-2006, 01:35 PM
OMG I can't imagine what you're going through. But when you think about it, w/ each passing hour, it will only get more and more stressful for you, and you are either pregnant or not. I think you will be equally disappointed w/ BFN as w/ coming of AF but at least the stress, the hope will be over. One way or the other you will know...and you MAY BE PREGNANT, and instead of stressing out you could be celebrating!!!
It's up to you, I know it's tough, I waited almost 4-5 days when AF was late w/ my first son, but I wasn't stressed about it, as I was very busy w/ work and friends, and by the time I realized AF was late it was almost 3 days late.
Good luck w/ whatever decision you make, we are all here for you, but if you choose to wait, you have to find a way to relax b/c if you're not preggo, it will delay AF, and if you are, stress is not good for the little one. (If you're preggo you will be very happy no matter what, I just think that if you're not preggo, the longer you wait, the more disappointed you will be.)
:wave:
It's up to you, I know it's tough, I waited almost 4-5 days when AF was late w/ my first son, but I wasn't stressed about it, as I was very busy w/ work and friends, and by the time I realized AF was late it was almost 3 days late.
Good luck w/ whatever decision you make, we are all here for you, but if you choose to wait, you have to find a way to relax b/c if you're not preggo, it will delay AF, and if you are, stress is not good for the little one. (If you're preggo you will be very happy no matter what, I just think that if you're not preggo, the longer you wait, the more disappointed you will be.)
:wave:
megss
12-17-2006, 02:59 PM
I agree...I think testing with lessen some of your stress.
You sound sooo good for a BFP! Major mood swings AND a late AF!:)
Test test test!!!
You sound sooo good for a BFP! Major mood swings AND a late AF!:)
Test test test!!!
southern_belle
12-17-2006, 03:38 PM
You girls are so awesome!!!
I think I am going to test tomorrow with fmu. I do think that if I knew for sure I would feel better and if I'm not, then I could relax a little...
I will let y'all know.
Belle
I think I am going to test tomorrow with fmu. I do think that if I knew for sure I would feel better and if I'm not, then I could relax a little...
I will let y'all know.
Belle
millyz_madness
12-18-2006, 02:21 AM
It's so daunting the thought of testing and getting a BFN, I know how you are feeling. Like the others said perhaps testing may release a little of your stress. Good luck and keep us all posted
milly
milly
southern_belle
12-18-2006, 09:47 AM
Ok, I tested...BFN. Go figure.
So now we will just wait for AF so I can start over :mad:
Belle
So now we will just wait for AF so I can start over :mad:
Belle
megss
12-18-2006, 09:50 AM
Really? Ugh! I am sorry....But it is not over until AF arrives!!!!
Sophie11
12-18-2006, 10:13 AM
Sorry!!! I know exactly how you feel. I also tested this morning and also got a BFN.
southern_belle
12-18-2006, 10:37 AM
Thanks megss & Sophie...
I just wish she would just come so I can be done with this cycle.
I'll let y'all know if anything new develops...:wave:
Belle
I just wish she would just come so I can be done with this cycle.
I'll let y'all know if anything new develops...:wave:
Belle
Kiedy
12-18-2006, 12:24 PM
I'm so sorry, that's so disappointing. It really looked good for you this month, hang in there. We will all be together for the next cycle.:)
southern_belle
12-18-2006, 10:40 PM
Thanks everyone for all of your encouraging words...
Still no af, so we'll just wait and see...
How about everyone else?
Still no af, so we'll just wait and see...
How about everyone else?
Kiedy
12-19-2006, 02:03 AM
My Af is due wed, but it could come tue or thurs. On my BBT chart I had to cycles started one nov 20 and one nov 21, so I don't know which was correct as to when AF started. Last 2 cycles were 30days, but b/f I had my son, they were always 28days...so any day now. I'm so happy the 2ww is almost over.
southern_belle
12-19-2006, 10:36 PM
Hey girls,
Still no AF. I am super constipated too (I know, ew, gross)
I just wish something would give!!! My left bb is starting to feel a little sore, so maybe she will show...what a horrible Christmas present!!!
Baby dust to all :angel:
Belle
Still no AF. I am super constipated too (I know, ew, gross)
I just wish something would give!!! My left bb is starting to feel a little sore, so maybe she will show...what a horrible Christmas present!!!
Baby dust to all :angel:
Belle
southern_belle
12-20-2006, 03:58 PM
I think my body just indicated that af is close.
I know that cervix position is no sure fire indication of anything, but when I checked a little while ago, it is the lowest I have ever felt it. so after finally being 5 days late, I think she is approaching...so I guess we'll see. I can't imagine that I'm pg and it would drop that low...who knows though:dizzy:
Belle
I know that cervix position is no sure fire indication of anything, but when I checked a little while ago, it is the lowest I have ever felt it. so after finally being 5 days late, I think she is approaching...so I guess we'll see. I can't imagine that I'm pg and it would drop that low...who knows though:dizzy:
Belle
Kiedy
12-20-2006, 05:05 PM
Hi southernbelle, no AF for me yet either, I'm expecting it this afternoon/night. I usually don't get any symtoms until day 2 of AF.
Have you tested again just to see if it's still BFN??
Have you tested again just to see if it's still BFN??
southern_belle
12-20-2006, 05:34 PM
No I haven't tested yet. I think I will wait and re-evaluate on Friday, if she hasn't shown. That will make me a week late...The only problem is that we are leaving to drive home on Friday, so testing may be a little tricky with so much travel...I may just test Friday morning if she is a no show, we're not leaving until late afternoon...
I really hope somebody gets a BFP for Christmas!!!
I really hope somebody gets a BFP for Christmas!!!
Kiedy
12-21-2006, 01:40 PM
Hi southernbell, I just noticed you're in Florida, and we are going there end of the month to visit in-laws (I'm in vancouver, canada). So I'm happy to hear about the nice weather. How lucky am i to have them live there :)
It's good that you will be taking your test fri am, b/c as you know pee is most concentrated then. If AF doesn't come today, I think I will test tomorrow too, though it's so hard, b/c I just know it will come as soon as I test, and I don't want her to have the last laugh. Have you been charting for the past week? I don't know what to make of my temps. They've stayed high for the past week (36.6 -36.8C) and this morning it was 36.7C. I don't know when it will go down. Initially I thought it will go down couple days b/f AF, but I know some ladies said that it may not go down until couple days after AF shows. So now I'm lost, I thought at least that would give me some idea as to when AF will show, but no such luck.
So we may be testing together, YEY. I will keep my fingers crossed for you (though you are in a different time zone, so you will test earlier). Hopefully AF will come today and won't have to waste my test. :wave:
It's good that you will be taking your test fri am, b/c as you know pee is most concentrated then. If AF doesn't come today, I think I will test tomorrow too, though it's so hard, b/c I just know it will come as soon as I test, and I don't want her to have the last laugh. Have you been charting for the past week? I don't know what to make of my temps. They've stayed high for the past week (36.6 -36.8C) and this morning it was 36.7C. I don't know when it will go down. Initially I thought it will go down couple days b/f AF, but I know some ladies said that it may not go down until couple days after AF shows. So now I'm lost, I thought at least that would give me some idea as to when AF will show, but no such luck.
So we may be testing together, YEY. I will keep my fingers crossed for you (though you are in a different time zone, so you will test earlier). Hopefully AF will come today and won't have to waste my test. :wave:
southern_belle
12-21-2006, 03:41 PM
Hey Kiedy:wave:
I went to wm and bought 2 tests, so we will see...
I have not began to temp yet, I was going to start with this months cycle. Hopefully I won't have to worry about that :D
When are you suppose to start? Are you having any symptoms???
What part of FL are you visiting? I live in Southwest FL
Belle
I went to wm and bought 2 tests, so we will see...
I have not began to temp yet, I was going to start with this months cycle. Hopefully I won't have to worry about that :D
When are you suppose to start? Are you having any symptoms???
What part of FL are you visiting? I live in Southwest FL
Belle
vigette
12-21-2006, 03:50 PM
Good luck girls on tomorrow's testing!!!:blob_fire :blob_fire
megss
12-21-2006, 03:51 PM
Belle my parents have a "part time" house in Naples. I love it there!
southern_belle
12-21-2006, 04:39 PM
Thanks Vigette...send me and Kiedy some of that BFP power!!!
Naples if beautiful!!! I work in Cape Coral (about an hour north of Naples) and live in Port Charlotte (about 1.5 hours north of naples). So you're parents are what we call "snowbirds" lol. We have only been here a little over a year, we are from Louisiana, and my fiance moved down here for a job.
What is your CD status?? Still having those bad pains??
It's a small world!!
Belle
Naples if beautiful!!! I work in Cape Coral (about an hour north of Naples) and live in Port Charlotte (about 1.5 hours north of naples). So you're parents are what we call "snowbirds" lol. We have only been here a little over a year, we are from Louisiana, and my fiance moved down here for a job.
What is your CD status?? Still having those bad pains??
It's a small world!!
Belle
megss
12-21-2006, 04:45 PM
Hey Belle!
Yes they are snow birds! They don't get to stay down there the entire winter though because I have a sister who is only 11 (She was a major surprise!), and she needs to go to school. They go down all the time still though:)
I am on cd14 and still having the pains, although they are feeling a little better right now. Earlier today they were very bad. I always O early, like cd 9-12, so I am sure I have Oed, but my chart hasn't confirmed anything yet. I am very frusterated. I started with the pains on cd7, so I have no idea what is going on with my body:confused:
Yes they are snow birds! They don't get to stay down there the entire winter though because I have a sister who is only 11 (She was a major surprise!), and she needs to go to school. They go down all the time still though:)
I am on cd14 and still having the pains, although they are feeling a little better right now. Earlier today they were very bad. I always O early, like cd 9-12, so I am sure I have Oed, but my chart hasn't confirmed anything yet. I am very frusterated. I started with the pains on cd7, so I have no idea what is going on with my body:confused:
Kiedy
12-21-2006, 04:56 PM
My in-laws live in SE region (close to Fourt Lauterdale, sp?). Too bad you haven't been charting this month you could shed some light on my temps. But of course next month I think it will be more clear.
As to symptoms I haven't had anything as obvious w/ my son (huge amount of CM around implantation, and I mean huge, like I've never seen before, sorry for tmi, and at 5 days late, frequent urination, where I went from peeing about 2/day, to 4 or 5 in 2hrs, without drinking more). This time all I had was constipation which I usually don't have, but then I just thought that was caused by the multivit that I started taking, dizzyness, everytime I get up, my head spins, but again that could be nothing and something constantly smells, but agian that could be just the sensitivity I have from my son's diarhea that he's had for the past 5 days. And I guess last 4days I've been craving meat every night before I go to bed. So every night around 11pm, I go to get some food, which is somewhat unusual. But again, I've been very busy during the day, and maybe I just don't eat enough and that's why I'm more hungry at night.
So as you see, there is good and reasonable explanation for everything. I'm sure AF will come this afternoon. :angel:
As to symptoms I haven't had anything as obvious w/ my son (huge amount of CM around implantation, and I mean huge, like I've never seen before, sorry for tmi, and at 5 days late, frequent urination, where I went from peeing about 2/day, to 4 or 5 in 2hrs, without drinking more). This time all I had was constipation which I usually don't have, but then I just thought that was caused by the multivit that I started taking, dizzyness, everytime I get up, my head spins, but again that could be nothing and something constantly smells, but agian that could be just the sensitivity I have from my son's diarhea that he's had for the past 5 days. And I guess last 4days I've been craving meat every night before I go to bed. So every night around 11pm, I go to get some food, which is somewhat unusual. But again, I've been very busy during the day, and maybe I just don't eat enough and that's why I'm more hungry at night.
So as you see, there is good and reasonable explanation for everything. I'm sure AF will come this afternoon. :angel:
babyluv01
12-21-2006, 10:33 PM
Hey Kiedy, i find it funny that i start finding reasonable explanation for things. but for me i think a lot of it is in my head. like for the past 3 - 4 days i've been having small cramps in the left side, where ovaries and stuff should be. but then i think its in my head, i'm 6 dpo. then for about 10 or 15 mins i get slight nausea. once again, just thinking of things. i have noticed i have a lot more cm, no really ewcm but there is some, but most of it is just watery. i don't know...this is enough to make me go crazy :) good luck to you and everyone else!!!:wave:
southern_belle
12-22-2006, 09:05 AM
I got another BFN this morning...I don't know what to think, b/c she is still not here...:confused:
Kiedy
12-22-2006, 12:26 PM
Oh southernbelle, I'm sorry to hear that, I was really hopeful for you. I just got up, and haven't tested yet. My temp is still high, so I decided to test. I have to feed my son first as he is already up. Will let you know ASAP.
Maybe if AF doesn't come by next wk, I would go see your doc for blood test. Let's hope it comes soon and you can start another fresh new cycle.
Try to enjoy the holiday. :angel:
Maybe if AF doesn't come by next wk, I would go see your doc for blood test. Let's hope it comes soon and you can start another fresh new cycle.
Try to enjoy the holiday. :angel:
southern_belle
12-22-2006, 12:38 PM
Thanks Kiedy...I'm pulling for you!!!
yourspecialmiss
01-03-2007, 11:19 PM
Thanks Kiedy...I'm pulling for you!!!
Any updates ?
:wave:
Any updates ?
:wave:
southern_belle
01-04-2007, 12:28 PM
Hey...
AF showed up on 12/24, just in time for Christmas :mad:
The good news is that I started to temp, so now I am CD 12. Since my cycles have been a little wacky for the past 2 months, hopefully this will help me pinpoint things a little better.
Where are you in your cycle?
Belle
AF showed up on 12/24, just in time for Christmas :mad:
The good news is that I started to temp, so now I am CD 12. Since my cycles have been a little wacky for the past 2 months, hopefully this will help me pinpoint things a little better.
Where are you in your cycle?
Belle
yourspecialmiss
01-04-2007, 09:22 PM
Hey...
AF showed up on 12/24, just in time for Christmas :mad:
The good news is that I started to temp, so now I am CD 12. Since my cycles have been a little wacky for the past 2 months, hopefully this will help me pinpoint things a little better.
Where are you in your cycle?
Belle
I don't know if I have enough baby dust stored up...but I'm sprinkling my supply on you *********
My period is set to start tomorrow. This will be our first time trying. We're hoping for the best.
AF showed up on 12/24, just in time for Christmas :mad:
The good news is that I started to temp, so now I am CD 12. Since my cycles have been a little wacky for the past 2 months, hopefully this will help me pinpoint things a little better.
Where are you in your cycle?
Belle
I don't know if I have enough baby dust stored up...but I'm sprinkling my supply on you *********
My period is set to start tomorrow. This will be our first time trying. We're hoping for the best.
southern_belle
01-05-2007, 08:16 AM
I wish you the best!!!! I will say a little prayer that nasty AF doesn't show :angel:
Please let us know!!!
Belle
Please let us know!!!
Belle