Yes, i have a had herpes for 4 years now, and just recently have i found out that hsv2 can be spread by viral shedding :eek: and obviously have switched gyno's, I am now 5 weeks pregnant and have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I don't get out breaks severly but more like swollen "lips" ( sorry for graphic details) I believe i may have givin the virus to my man, he's got all the symptoms and somtimes during sex, he had what looked like tiny red bumps, which also looked like a tear in the skin of his penis. I also now have a outbreak between my fingers, which may be him giving me the virus . I need help, i am so scared that he'll get very upset i mean i know how angry i felt, and the worst part of all is that when we meant he actually was being responsible and asked bout STD history, and i told him no that i had nothing, knowing that i did, but thought i could hide it and am still hiding it. I just am looking for some advice to break the news to him