zencat
02-04-2007, 01:16 PM
I want thank everybody for their help, I need a little time to think about my interaction here and elsewhere on boards I have joined. I am having problems with empathy. There are so many great communicators here and I feel lacking in that department. I will post some, to offer what support I can, when I am able to do so.
Sid. Nikki. FTM. You guys are very special to me. :wave: I’m not going away just pulling back a bit. :)
Hugs. Zencat
Sid. Nikki. FTM. You guys are very special to me. :wave: I’m not going away just pulling back a bit. :)
Hugs. Zencat
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02-04-2007, 01:29 PM
zencat------I hope you read this. We have all been there lately. sometimes you just cannot get into someone else's stuff because you have too much of your own. take the time you need and come back when you can. God be with you and keep you safe. Prayers are coming your way.
Hugs,
Grasshopper
Hugs,
Grasshopper
stick2013
02-04-2007, 01:47 PM
Dear Zencat,
I will really miss you.....Hang in there buddy. This too shall pass. We have all been there.......
Please just check in once and awhile to let us know that you are ok....
Big hugs,
Sid
I will really miss you.....Hang in there buddy. This too shall pass. We have all been there.......
Please just check in once and awhile to let us know that you are ok....
Big hugs,
Sid
hergy
02-04-2007, 03:27 PM
Man, I was just getting to know you. I'll miss you, Zencat.
I'm here when you're ready. You're under no obligation to anyone on this board. Post when you want. Read when you want.
You're an awesome guy. Take care.
Love and hugs,
Nikki
I'm here when you're ready. You're under no obligation to anyone on this board. Post when you want. Read when you want.
You're an awesome guy. Take care.
Love and hugs,
Nikki
Phoenix
02-06-2007, 08:15 PM
I want thank everybody for their help, I need a little time to think about my interaction here and elsewhere on boards I have joined. I am having problems with empathy. There are so many great communicators here and I feel lacking in that department. I will post some, to offer what support I can, when I am able to do so.
Sid. Nikki. FTM. You guys are very special to me. :wave: I’m not going away just pulling back a bit. :)
Hugs. Zencat
Dear Zencat,
I respect all that you decide.
It is not always about communicating. There are times I just view a few threads and call it a day with a few responses and other days it's "overkill."
You are "family" now and the door always remains open for family.
Just don't forget your way home, okay?
Take care
God Bless
FTM
Sid. Nikki. FTM. You guys are very special to me. :wave: I’m not going away just pulling back a bit. :)
Hugs. Zencat
Dear Zencat,
I respect all that you decide.
It is not always about communicating. There are times I just view a few threads and call it a day with a few responses and other days it's "overkill."
You are "family" now and the door always remains open for family.
Just don't forget your way home, okay?
Take care
God Bless
FTM
zencat
02-07-2007, 08:17 PM
FMT ~ Yes, you make a good point. Its more about just being here for others and at the same time caring for ourselves . I lose sight of that and get overwhelmed… and close down. I am working on pacing myself, what’s the rush anyway, I’m on SSI and have all the time I need to better myself and my situation.
I think I’ll poke around say Hi to my family of friends.
Thx…. FTM….for dropping me a few lines……….Zencat
I think I’ll poke around say Hi to my family of friends.
Thx…. FTM….for dropping me a few lines……….Zencat
stick2013
02-07-2007, 08:21 PM
Hi Zen.......
Hope that the few days off have helped you sort things out a bit. I for one am happy to see you post, but I know that Nikki, will be even happier.
So how goes the battle????? Is it on the upswing again???? Hang in there...
Big hugs for coming back, even if only to say Hi, I am well....We care and worry!!!!!
Sid
Hope that the few days off have helped you sort things out a bit. I for one am happy to see you post, but I know that Nikki, will be even happier.
So how goes the battle????? Is it on the upswing again???? Hang in there...
Big hugs for coming back, even if only to say Hi, I am well....We care and worry!!!!!
Sid
Phoenix
02-07-2007, 10:16 PM
FMT ~ Yes, you make a good point. Its more about just being here for others and at the same time caring for ourselves . I lose sight of that and get overwhelmed… and close down. I am working on pacing myself, what’s the rush anyway, I’m on SSI and have all the time I need to better myself and my situation.
I think I’ll poke around say Hi to my family of friends.
Thx…. FTM….for dropping me a few lines……….Zencat
Dear zencat,
Pacing is definitely a good thing; Rome wasn't built in a day after all.
I wanted to discuss things with you before but the opportunity never presented itself.
If I feel that a thread is going in a positive direction then (most of the time) I will refrain from posting; especially when all has been said and I feel that there is nothing sufficient I can add.
Take your time but also put into perspective that life is short and you will not get any answers if you don't ask the questions.
I'll keep the porch light on.
Take care
God Bless
FTM
I think I’ll poke around say Hi to my family of friends.
Thx…. FTM….for dropping me a few lines……….Zencat
Dear zencat,
Pacing is definitely a good thing; Rome wasn't built in a day after all.
I wanted to discuss things with you before but the opportunity never presented itself.
If I feel that a thread is going in a positive direction then (most of the time) I will refrain from posting; especially when all has been said and I feel that there is nothing sufficient I can add.
Take your time but also put into perspective that life is short and you will not get any answers if you don't ask the questions.
I'll keep the porch light on.
Take care
God Bless
FTM
hergy
02-07-2007, 11:49 PM
Zencat,
I AM SO GLAD TO HEAR FROM YOU!:bouncing:
Always go at your own pace, sharing and doing what makes you most comfortable.
You're an awesome guy. You understand some of my deepest problems that I never thought anyone could possibly understand. I value your take, even if you're not offering advice. Just knowing you understand is enough.
I'm always here and care very much about your welfare and progress.
Take care. You deserve every bit of peace that comes your way.
Love and hugs,
Nikki
I AM SO GLAD TO HEAR FROM YOU!:bouncing:
Always go at your own pace, sharing and doing what makes you most comfortable.
You're an awesome guy. You understand some of my deepest problems that I never thought anyone could possibly understand. I value your take, even if you're not offering advice. Just knowing you understand is enough.
I'm always here and care very much about your welfare and progress.
Take care. You deserve every bit of peace that comes your way.
Love and hugs,
Nikki