halika2
02-11-2007, 07:17 PM
Hi!
I'm trying to find anyone with similar problems to what my son is experiencing. He is almost 31 years old, and had his 3rd back surgery in Nov.
His 1st surgery was for an L1S5 rupture. From that scar tissue developed and pinched a nerve controlling the bladder. He then had another surgery to excise scar tissue. He now has a bladder that doesn't fully empty, but for year it was mostly controlled by medication.
Last year he had his 3rd surgery for the disk right above the original. Since the surgery he has had a constant feeling of having to pee. He says it feels like there's a catheter in place.
I contacted his urologists office; they would do nothing until his appointment this past Jan. He had to wait 2 months to be seen!! He saw his primary doctor, who gave him stronger pain pills, cause that's the only thing that helped mask the feeling.
Last week his urologist gave him antibiotics, hoping the problem is prostatitis, which he's had before. That has done nothing.
Has ANYBODY gone through this before, and if so WHAT DID YOU DO? He is worried about getting hooked on pain meds, and has been taking too many at one time to relieve the feeling. His primary doc also gave him valium hoping that it would relax muscles and give some relief.
I am worried and scared to death for him. I want to take him to another urologist if he'll allow it. He is now very depressed (past history of depression), and I broached mental health help, but he's against it because of his past treatment failures.
Anyone who has any advice, I'm open to anything at this point.
If you've ever had a bad UTI, you will be able to sympathize with him.
He also has Tourette Syndrome, ADHD, asthma, a sleep phase disorder, and social phobias, and a total lack of self esteem. He is handsome, artistically talented and super intelligent.
Darlene
I'm trying to find anyone with similar problems to what my son is experiencing. He is almost 31 years old, and had his 3rd back surgery in Nov.
His 1st surgery was for an L1S5 rupture. From that scar tissue developed and pinched a nerve controlling the bladder. He then had another surgery to excise scar tissue. He now has a bladder that doesn't fully empty, but for year it was mostly controlled by medication.
Last year he had his 3rd surgery for the disk right above the original. Since the surgery he has had a constant feeling of having to pee. He says it feels like there's a catheter in place.
I contacted his urologists office; they would do nothing until his appointment this past Jan. He had to wait 2 months to be seen!! He saw his primary doctor, who gave him stronger pain pills, cause that's the only thing that helped mask the feeling.
Last week his urologist gave him antibiotics, hoping the problem is prostatitis, which he's had before. That has done nothing.
Has ANYBODY gone through this before, and if so WHAT DID YOU DO? He is worried about getting hooked on pain meds, and has been taking too many at one time to relieve the feeling. His primary doc also gave him valium hoping that it would relax muscles and give some relief.
I am worried and scared to death for him. I want to take him to another urologist if he'll allow it. He is now very depressed (past history of depression), and I broached mental health help, but he's against it because of his past treatment failures.
Anyone who has any advice, I'm open to anything at this point.
If you've ever had a bad UTI, you will be able to sympathize with him.
He also has Tourette Syndrome, ADHD, asthma, a sleep phase disorder, and social phobias, and a total lack of self esteem. He is handsome, artistically talented and super intelligent.
Darlene

