My DH and I have been trying to conceive over 2 years. Last week I had a lap and was told that their was no way I could of gotten pregnant because of the endo. I felt like we wasted so much time. I tried to stay positive that last couple of days until I was told tonight by my mom that my sister in law is pregnant. They haven't really been trying. Of course I am happy but I know you all can understand why I am also sad. I can't stop crying.:dizzy:

Jsquared sorry to hear u are going through all this trust me I know how u feel.Just found out my SIL is pregnant as well and they have been married for 12 years and never had any kids we just thought they dident want any.So to find out she is pregnant really made me sad to.Not that I am not happy for them I am cause my brother will be a great dad.I asked my shrink about feeling that way and she said it is very normal and no u are not a bad person u are human and its only natural to feel like that cause of what u are going through.Yes I see a shrink 2 times a month really helps to get it out.My Re had suggested it and I dident think I would do it but I am glad I did.I really recommend women going through IF seek some help it really works wonders.Hope u feel better soon u will.I hurt the first few days when I found out but it passed.I promise it will pass.Just takes some time to digest the news.Take care and keep us posted.

Mapia

Hi Jsquared,

I am really sorry your sad today. It is always so hard to take when some-one else get pregnant especially some-one that is so close to us. I have another post where I discuss the same thing. SIL is pregnant with #2. Even though we don't want to be sad we can't help it so go ahead and let it out. You WILL feel better. YOu got a lot of news recently and feeling like you wasted time really hurts. But just remember that now you know what is going on and all these struggles will be worth it when you become a mommy and now you really are on your way. Hang in there ok!!!!! We are here for you. Do you need a lemon tree?? I will send one ASAP!!! LOL!!!

Hi Jsquared,

So sorry you are sad. I've been there so many times when someone really close to me got pregnant. You are happy for them but so sad for yourself. You want to be there too. I completely understand. Cry, vent, do whatever you need to to feel better. IF is so unfair and sometimes we just have to let it out. I usually feel better after a good cry. You always have our shoulder to cry on here.

Hope you feel better soon.

Lori

I know what you mean JSquared! I was just talking to one of our friends who lives in our development the other day, because she was asking how my lap went. Don't get me wrong, she is so sweet and caring, but she was telling me that fortunately, she doesnt' have any problems getting pregnant. With the first, it was a surprise, when they decided to have a second one, she went off birth control for 3 weeks and got pregnant, and then they are thinking about having another. They still aren't sure, but I'm sure she'll be pregnant before I am!

I just have to keep telling myself it'll happen though. Just think, we'll all appreciate it so much more!!! Good luck everyone! Our BFP's are coming!

~Laurie

I'm sorry.....I really do know how hard it is. Hang in there - your day will come, too! :)

Thanks everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your support and kind words really lift my spirits. It is soooooooooooo nice to talk to those who can relate.:wave: