:mad: I think I am going to go crazy. I'm on CD 20 and still no surge. I don't know when I would normally "O" I have had 3 cycles since MC and they have been 32, 28 and 34 so I thought I would try OPT's and nothing so far. I have not seen even a lighter line just the control line. Is it possible I missed it or am I just not going to "O" this month. Any one with this before. Please Help I want to get on that 2ww list so bad and at this rate it's never going to happen

UGH, I'm so sorry you're going through that. I HATE OPK's. Don't get me wrong, they are helpful, but they are SO frustrating. I hate to say this, but there is a chance you missed your O this month. There is also a chance you will O and it just hasn't happened yet. Then, there is still the chance that you won't O this month at all...So many possibilities. :rolleyes: I would recommend you ask your dr to draw b/w so he can check your hormone levels and see if you O'd this month or not. I really am sorry you have to deal with this, and I wish you lots of luck in the future!

Holly

Brown Eyed,

I am so sorry, that is frustrating! Unfortunately I agree with Holly, there are so many possibilities. I have O'd as late as 21 days so you might not have missed it yet but your best option is to see if you can have the blood test so you know for sure. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

Lori

Well just is case I did miss is DH and I have been BDing EOD if not then at least every 3. And I have been nauseated and extreme head aches for 5 days now. I actually vomited yesterday. So maybe if I did "O" and missed it on test myabe I got it when it counts.....but my luck I am getting the flu.....but it's wierd I am fine for a few hours and then it will hit me. It's the craziest case of the flu yet. Well I'll keep you all posted and who knows maybe if I haven't I will soon...:angel:

Hi Brown eyed,

Well try not to worry after my m/c it took a LONG time for my cycles to go back to normal. This is probably the case for you...it does not mean you did not ovulate. Besides remember that OPK's are not as accurate as B/W. Maybe your already pregnant the vomitting and flu sx's although they same a bit early to have those sx's maybe you already are. I hope so for you!!! Good luck!!!

Fingers are crossed I feel the same as with last preg. except I don't remember headaches....they are really aweful lately. So who know I actually took a HPT Saturday night but was BFN but just thought maybe I was Preg. from last month. I was almost 8 weeks when I got BFP with last pregnancy. I just know I feel like crap. So Baby dust to all and wish me luck.:angel:

Brown,
With this bfp..I was shocked since I had a pos opk for a week! It said I o'd on day 12..had iUi that day..and the lines stayed the same (dr. told me to continue w the opk to see if anything changes) He said if it didn't then next cycle we'd drop the opk's and use u/s. Well...to my surprise i had a bfp.
And, for the symptoms I had a headche too and felt naseus (sp?)

S&J well I am on CD 21 and still no pos. OPK I've been taking since CD 5 or 7 can't remeber now....and haven't seen 2 lines yet.....not even a faint one. I'm starting to think I have the flu now.....I have aweful headaches and back aches and they run from just below my shoulders all the way up the back of my head.....and my neck is so stiff so surely this isn't sign of PG.....all though I would take it if it was...so who knows so wish me luck....BABY DUST to ALL!!:angel:

Thanks Joey....maybe my flu will be a precious gift from God. I am hoping and if I am still feeling this bad after work I do believe I will go to DR.....just hoping to make it through the day....Baby dust to all of you and sending prayers out too..