Hi Ladies! I really need your help...

I have read a couple of threads already that a lot of us ladies have gotten the side effects caused by birth control. The only side effects that I am experiencing is the major MOOD SWINGS!!! And I mean major! I thought that something may have been wrong with me mentally... Because lately when I get upset I get REALLY UPSET!!! to the 3rd degree. I mean I have gotten physically abusive to my BF...... And lately I have been having a lot of dreams of people getting me mad in me beating them up big time.... Is this happening to anyone... if so please let me know which pills you are taking?? I am currently taking Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo. Thanks