Are you working with a therapist? A good psychologist could help you and your son a great deal. He needs the learn the skills necessary to cope with his differences. Learning will undoubtedly be a challenge, though most Aspbergers and Autistic people are very intelligent, the social stress of a school environment is difficult. Large classrooms, with many students is intimidating to most children on the autistic spectrum. There is also medication that he can take to help him while he learns the coping skills to succeed in life. Your peditrician or a therapist is your first line of defense. Seek professional help, you're son's success, self worth, and future happiness depend on it. You need a professional to guide you through the teenage years.